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I think she's mad cause I'm gay?

Alright, so I've been openly Bi for a very long time now. I think I'm bi because I've had girlfriends in the past, watch straight porn, and have had sex with girls before. Tonight this girl at my work invited me back to her house. We ended up having sex but for whatever reason I couldn't "get it up". I tried explaining that it wasn't her and that I think I just might be gay. I told her sorry and left. On the way home she texted me saying I me saying I made her feel horrible about herself and that we shouldn't speak anymore. I love her to death as a friend but just really didn't want to have sex with her. Not to mention I'm not a big fan of one night stands, it's hard for me to get off when it's not someone I see like that. So what should I do? I love this girl but just not like that. Also I'm not sure if I'm fully gay or not. Help please?

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  • Fenris
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, I seriously doubt you're fully gay, like, 100% if you have had girlfriends in the past.

    Fully gay really means "I don't like, like, woman. Maybe as a friend, but not in an relationship format. Men only!"

    So, seeing that you've had girlfriends in the past and I'm guessing you've had some feelings for them, don't worry about it. If a girl's going to guilt trip you just say "Hey, I'm sorry for what happend, I hope we can move past this and still be friends" Of course, if you feel she's going to continue, or if she does, just forget her.

    Source(s): Life.
  • GQ
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Well when it comes to your sexual oreantationyou could be bi or gay. Many gay guys have had sex with women and in some, cases a few women. many that do don't feel like they reached full pleasure and often at frist assume it's just them. Another thing to factor in is hormones which in guys who are teenagers can cause them to confuse being attracted to someone and knowing when someone looks good. But as you age this becomes more clear. so you maybe bi but most likely your finding out your gay. Now when it comes to this girl just remember we all make mistakes. Use this as a lesson to not have sex with someone unless you into them. apologize to the girl and then give her space. And don't beat yourself over the head we are all human and make mistakes.

  • 9 years ago

    nice going you just ruined a girls self esteem. If you didn't want to have sex then don't do it. Just because you couldn't "get it up" that one time with her doesn't mean your gay..but if you feel gay then yeah you probably are. Next time think before you act.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Be a man and stop being a disgusting FA_GGOT!

    As you just found out, it's degrading to BOTH women and men.

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  • 9 years ago

    If you didn't want to have sex with her, why did you try? Of course she's going to feel bad about it.

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