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Why is he treating me like this? :(?
Ok so I am in a long distance relationship the last time I saw him was in may & I won't be with him again until October, I miss him so much it hurt!
He was so nice before even with us being apart before if we argued before within the hour he would send me a sorry message, I talk to him every night on web cam but the past few nights he has been coming late one time he said he fell asleep, one time he said he would come in 20minutes but came well over an hour late and last night he wouldn't answer his phone and came a stupid time saying he went to get money off a friend! This could all be true but it also may not be..
He has been speaking to me like **** and if I say something to him about how I feel he just tells me I'm the same as this other girl who is always suspicious, I called him today & his voice was so different so I said this to him & he asked if I was drunk!
This may seem like nothing but I swear it's killing me, iv'e said if he doesn't want me then tell me & he just blames me for not wanting it I told him that I want him then he just said he was going sleep!
I love him so much but I don't like the way he's speaking to me past few days, he is killing me inside and really up setting me. He works in a tourist place so I'm thinking he's with someone else..
Hope you understand this I know the punctuation isn't the best but I'm angry & hurt when I write this it just pours out!
3 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
I think that maybe you should ask "why am I treating myself like this". If you really like him, you wouldn't worry so much about him being with someone else, and trust him enough not to be. If you both just set each other free, then I think it'll do you both the world of good. Sometimes we all need a bit of breathing space. Don't be too hard on yourself! Trust that you are enough for this guy. As for the insensitivity, that's a guy thing. He'll learn in time, trust me. As for the calling, let him come to you sometimes. If you do the same routine, it becomes stale. Just be spontaneous. Still keep a regular contact, but don't be rigid about schedule. I'm sure it'll work out for you. If he keeps being like this, chuck him, he's not worth it. Hope this helps. Good luck!
Source(s): Life. - 9 years ago
I think you can feel it best whether he still loves you or not, if not love you as much. Stop talking to him on webcam for a a week, let him wait, and he might be able to understand how you feel without you having to express yourself. Give each other some time to cool down, stop contacting for a while. See if he does contact you first and speak to you nicely. If he doesn't, well, it may sound cruel, but this guy is not worth your time and effort anymore. Both of you might have true love before, but it's a fact that although long distance relationship is not impossible to maintain, it's hard, especially for people without determination or get carried away easily. From what you mentioned about him working in a tourist place, that is something that could have easily happened. You have done enough for him, you were not the one who didn't treasure this relationship, so why not let it go coolly, before things between the both of you get any worse? Maybe someday in future, he would still think of you as a sweet girl whom he once loved (:
Source(s): Feelings (:
