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Why is he treating me like this? :(?
Ok so I am in a long distance relationship the last time I saw him was in may & I won't be with him again until October, I miss him so much it hurt!
He was so nice before even with us being apart before if we argued before within the hour he would send me a sorry message, I talk to him every night on web cam but the past few nights he has been coming late one time he said he fell asleep, one time he said he would come in 20minutes but came well over an hour late and last night he wouldn't answer his phone and came a stupid time saying he went to get money off a friend! This could all be true but it also may not be..
He has been speaking to me like **** and if I say something to him about how I feel he just tells me I'm the same as this other girl who is always suspicious, I called him today & his voice was so different so I said this to him & he asked if I was drunk!
This may seem like nothing but I swear it's killing me, I've said if he doesn't want me then tell me & he just blames me for not wanting it I told him that I want him then he just said he was going sleep!
Yes I did ask this question before but I want more answers please, I am not constantly trying to get hold of him and he's just sent me a message saying he thinks I don't care about him, told him that I did but he's now telling me to shut up! Don't know what the **** is wrong with him!
I love him so much but I don't like the way he's speaking to me past few days, he is killing me inside and really up setting me. He works in a tourist place so I'm thinking he's with someone else..
2 Answers
- flying carpetLv 69 years ago
You are crazy to have got involved.Long distance does NOT work out.
All the effort and time just comes to nothing in the end.
You have set yourself up for trouble.
Let him go and find a guy you can see often locally.
- Anonymous9 years ago
I can not offer advice, but what I can tell you is what people told me. I have just (this week in fact) gotten out of a long-term, long-distance relationship, with a very similar situation, except I had his mom treating me like I was nothing. I allowed it to continue, even though I was utterly broken and an emotional and nervous wreck, because I loved and adored the guy. I could not leave, my family had to save me from myself, and now looking back I see all these signs that tell me I should have left ages ago, I lost the person I was, and I saw that they turned all the guilt on me because they wanted me to be the one to run so that they could be guilt free. I was broken and battered but now I realized one thing- it hurts like hell and I still love my ex, but i was made to feel like i was not good enough for anyone and that he was doing me a favor by dating me but that is not love. No one can tell you what to do, but my advice would be to follow your heart, talk to the ones who know you best and who love you for who you are. A good friend (and my former boss) told me one thing "no one can make this choice for you, you have to do what is best for yourself, you don't sound happy or like the person I know, your heart will tell you what YOU need,listen to it" it is cliched but I took her advice, and I hope you do too, because only you will know what is the right course of action, and what your heart needs. I really hope this helps. your in my thoughts and feel free to contact me if you want.
Source(s): I lived through this.