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Lv 6

Should I text him? Getting mixed signals.?

Okay, a quick back ground – we met just over a month ago, and have been on 2 dates. We text all the time, have loads in common, and on Sunday night I went over to his house, and after making out for a while, we both told each other how much we liked the other.

And then on Tuesday I text him just to chat, and he seemed really distant, he barely answered me in texts, and stopped after 20 minutes. Should I text him tonight? I don’t want to seem overly keen, but he honestly used to text me every single day, and then after I actually admit to him how much I like him, he stops?

I just don't want to sound really clingy, but why would he say he likes me that much, and then suddenly not text anymore? He was the one who brought up the conversation about "us". He was making it sound like we were already a couple, and now nothing.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    txt him what u thought about the article, if it's too long then wait the next skype chat with him or u can pick up the phone and chat about it (since u have long to say and it's both a field of interest, it sure gives enough material for a bref real first talk on the phone). Make sure u ask him his thoughts about the article, eventually the convo will either suggest u guys click w/ a good flow and he'll probably ask u out or he's just shy and slow... anyhow let more substance come into play before making an assessment. In other words, keep in touch and go w/ the flow, more precisely don't overanalyze or judge his interest level too quickly.

  • 9 years ago

    Sounds like a player.. DO NOT text him! I've been in a similar situation before and found out tht the guy was cheating in his gf with me:S so yea play hard to get and don't give him the satisfaction by being there for him at his beck and call!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Dont text him tonight. He will think you are really clingy. Wait for him to text you first maybe he needs some time to think after you told him you liked himor maybe he was busy at the moment.

    Source(s): Me
  • 9 years ago

    I wouldn't text him, if he really likes you then he'd text you. Like the other person said, he may be a player. Just be careful /:

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