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Trent
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Trent asked in HealthWomen's Health · 9 years ago

Emergency. Logical answers please. Fiance is Miscarraging?

She is having horrible pains and she is crying. She has passed the fetus she says (only a couple months into pregnancy) and she is on the toilet crying. The pain got a lot better once the whole fetus passed but now she is in even more pain due to the placenta I think. She doesn't want to go to the doctor or hospital, she is saying its not that bad. She researched it and she knew it'd be painful to pass.

My question is how many people out there have had this happen to you and what did you do? Is she going to be okay? She is in a great deal of pain..

This is a serious question, I'd like serious answers. Please and thank you.

Update:

The most likely reason for the Miscarriage is the fact that she is O- and I am A+, the reason of the miscarriage isn't a worry. We don't plan on having kids because of health problems. She is also rather underweight which would also play into it. Having kids later, not a problem. She isn't in as much pain right now and I've tried speaking to her about the Doctors but she is set in her opinion of not going.

Also, yes I know you all are just random people but when someone lacks medical insurance, you sometimes have to do with what you got.

Update 2:

Addition:

Going to the doctor or hospital unless she is showing signs of something else like.. Lack of blood, temp, etc.. We cant do.. We have no place to go really because of money so the only place we could go is the hospital which we'd most defiantly get charged an arm and a leg. She only has tampons and no more pads and we live rather far from town, 8 miles. I am somewhat puzzled on what to do..

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  • 9 years ago
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    I've never had a miscarriage, but I've done a lot of research into childbirth, and the process really isn't any different.

    The pain is normal and ultimately harmless, although I'm sure it's hard on both of you.

    The biggest immediate concern is blood loss. If, at any point she appears to be gushing blood, you need to call 911. If, after she passes the placenta, she is soaking more than one pad ever hour or two, then she also needs to go to the hospital.

    The next concern is infection. Since her cervix is open, she should avoid inserting anything in her vagina for at least two weeks. This means no tampons, no baths, and no sex. She should also take her temperature several times over the next few days. If she is running a fever or if she has other symptoms of infection (like bad smelling discharge or chills), then she needs to go to the hospital.

    The third issue is that sometimes not everything is passed during a miscarriage. She should schedule an appointment with her doctor as soon as possible for an ultrasound so that they can check that her uterus is empty. If it isn't she'll probably have to undergo a D&C.

    ETA: If she is RH negative and you are RH positive, she really should get a Rhogram shot sometime within the next 72 hours.

    Since cost is a concern, I'd call up Planned Parenthood and see if they can do anything. They should at least, be able to provide an ultrasound, D&C, and a Rhogram shot if necessary and they'll do so on a sliding fee scale.

    --The hospital has to take you regardless of your ability to pay. I hate going to the doctor as much as anyone, and I probably would have gone through the miscarriage at home, too. In fact, I'd probably give birth at home. And I've been without insurance. But she absolutely needs an ultrasound. If you have no other options, then you'll have to take her to the hospital.

    If she only has tampons, then you can fold up a t-shirt or towel and she can sit on that until you can get some pads. But she needs them, as well.

  • 9 years ago

    She absolutely 100% needs to go into hospital. Tell her it is vital if she ever wants to have kids again she must go. They will make sure she did pass everything so no infection sets in. Also there is a reason for the miscarriage which needs to be checked out. It will be very difficult emotionally but collect the fetus and anything else that comes out and bring it to the hospital. They will return it for burial. Your fiancee will want to know the reason for when she decides to try again for a baby.

    Im so sorry this is happening to you both, its the hardest thing in the world.

    Get her to the hospital for her health and for the health of your future children.

    Source(s): Registered nurse and mom.
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    5 years ago

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  • MissA
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    She will probably be okay. Miscarriages are unpleasant but they don't usually kill you.

    That said, she needs to see a doctor, ideally today or tomorrow. Incomplete miscarriage is a legitimate risk to your health.

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  • 9 years ago

    I think you should call the doctor. We are just random people on the internet, we are not qualified to answer questions as serious as this one.

    Please call your doctor.

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