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Great boyfriend but feelings for ex? Being honest with myself hurts?

I've been dating my current boyfriend for three months now. He's amazing, we have so much in common, get along great, my friends love him, just perfect.

But I still have feelings for an ex. It was only a two month fling and one month after I broke up with him I jumped into a relationship with my current bf and although it is amazing I find myself wondering if I did it too soon. My ex let on that he still likes me (I've since blocked him with an explanation) and that made everything worse.

Half of me is so overjoyed to be in a relationship with this fantastic guy and half of me is aching to try to get back with my ex... I know 100% if I wasn't dating someone I'd be trying to get back right now. It makes me wonder if I'm being fair about my current relationship....

What should I do? I don't want to lead anyone on and it hurts to think about this but I have to be honest about what's going on.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    You just gotta remind yourself that the only way forward is to stop looking back. You and your ex aren't together anymore for a reason, and though you may both wish that can change, you have someone new now who you can learn to love the same and make more and maybe better memories with. If you are meant to be with your ex then that will happen eventually. Right now just focus on the one you're with.

    :)

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