Egg Donors, Embryo Donors, or Adoption?

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My brother in law and his wife have been going through In Vitro Fertility treatments for months and he had a low sperm count which has improved.  His wife seems to be unable to produce many eggs, and her estrogen level can't be sustained.  She is 37.  They have had 2 implantations cancelled due to lack of eggs.   They go back & forth on other methods and think they may regret any other option even though they want to be parents so badly.

Has anyone out there adopted a child or used an egg or embryo donor?  Did you ever feel like it wasn't yours?  Or were there issues if the baby was biologically the father's, but the mother's egg couldn't be used?  It's hard for them to believe my wife and I because we were fortunate enough to get pregnant a couple weeks after we got married.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well man of whom i have never met before,I think adoption is the best way to go.
Most people say they are worried they wont have the same connection as compared tot heir own child, but once you see them and hold them in your hands it all feels the same, love.Adoption is like a fantastic love puzzle, both the child and parents are missing something and they come together to give eachother what they have been missing, its really beautiful actually, BUT the other answer was good as well :)

Maryanne · Answer

My husband and I are having trouble concieving also. There are many things you can do. If your brother is wealthy enough then you can have a surrogate mother. She will get your brothers wives eggs implanted in her cervex and your brothers sperm injected too. The baby will be theres and look just like them. The surrogate mothers gets paid anywhere from 8,000 & up. Depending on how much they are willing to pay.

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Egg Donors, Embryo Donors, or Adoption?

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