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Is it normal to feel this way? Apathetic and passionate at the same time?

I've been with my boyfriend for three months now and everything is fantastic. He treats me like a princess and we talk about EVERYTHING together. We're a perfect match and I couldn't be happier.

But this is the strange part- when I think about being with him forever it makes me happy and I like the thought. But I also feel if he was gone my life would still go on, albeit I'd be sad for awhile. Does anyone else feel this way? Is this normal? I've been with guys where the thought of losing them made me ill and wondering how I would cope.

Sometimes I find myself wishing he would break up with me so I could see how much I would really miss him... is this a terrible way to think?

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    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    Yes, it's normal. It happens to me most of the time. Don't worry about it. Change your attitude because it is just not an appropriate thinking. Things will be normal when you focus your thoughts to something more better and of more values, rather than mere speculation and worries and anxieties which are really useless and of no redeeming values.

    Have a good day.

  • 9 years ago

    you dont love him

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