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My ex-gf had become a headache for me!!! What to do about her?

I met my ex after a long time.(she was

abroad). She came to my house lastweek

to stay here for couple of weeks! But now

im in a relationship with another girl who

is far more better than her..! And i should

mention that my ex wanted the breakup. Now she tells me that she misses me and

all. But, i dont want to be with her again!

never! So, i told her that now im in a

relationship and im not into her anymore!

After that, she agreed that! Then, later, she

had put a password to my phone and pc! And she tells me now that she will only

give those passwords if i kiss her!! What to

do??? I dont want to kiss her at all!! But i

need those passwords too! What can i do

to stop her doing those childish things???

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  • Boo
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Call your phone and internet companies and see if they can unlock it.

  • jayne
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Well, the first thing you could do is tell her to grow up! then as nicely as you can, remind her that what the two of you once had is in the past, and you have moved on, and she should do the same, dont be blackmailed into anything by her, tell her calmly, that whatever she says or does, it wont change anything, but that you would like to stay friends with her, but if she doesnt stop doing childish things it will be hard to do that. You have moved on with your life, she hasnt, and moving on can be so hard, that its much easier to try to get back what you once had, maybe because she hasnt found anyone else, and she is lonely, its made her think that breaking up with you was a mistake, but make sure she knows theres no going back, and dont give her any sort of encouragement, try and stay calm about the things she does, the more she thinks she is getting to you, the more she will do it, and if you give in to what she wants just once, she will think she can get whatever she wants that way, so tell her if the two of you are going to have friendship at least, you want the passwords, or theres no friendship, you might have to play her at her own game, to make her see how childish she is being, and show her she is wasting her time, but dont go into meltdown over it! thats what she wants, a reaction from you, so dont give it to her. If that fails, get in touch with whoever can arrange to override the passwords, also make sure your current girlfriend knows what is going on, that way, your ex will find it harder to come between you.

    Source(s): life
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    She seems very childish, so tell her that. And be very serious about it. You have to say it like you mean it. And well, if it doesnt work then i guess youre going to have to just ask her for the password. Oh yeah, and you could call tech support and say you locked yourself out of your phone/pc and they can help you get back in

  • Carole
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I would move, block her from every acct possible, change all my passwords, set up new e-mail accounts, get some good software to clean the computer of any spyware she installed, I would have no contact with her, her friends, or her family. If she ever e-mailed me I would print out a hard copy and keep it in a safe place, if she ever called, I would record it. If any of my things are vandalized, I would take pictures and make sure she is on the cops radar.

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  • 9 years ago

    First of all, tell your current girlfriend, that's the main thing. She NEEDS to know the truth before that ex wil try to mess her up. You NEVER know, if she dares to lock your stuff, she'll dare to break you apart. Second, punch her and kick her out. Seriously, she's trying to be a *****. If you don't dare to do that, tell her who's house she's living in, if she keeps on doing this, tell her you'll kick her out. :) Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    the password could be "ilove**insertgirlsname**" she sounds that kinda crazy.

    I think just be totally serious with her and avoid all contact with her. If she's still a problem you have to make yourself super unattractive, maybe stop washing?

  • 9 years ago

    Don't get beaten by a Girl. Dude, you can change your PC's Password. and for the phone., just Google it. :D

  • 9 years ago

    take her phone, throw it against the wall and tell her to stop messing the f*ck around get out of your house

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    My dear friend,it is easy,Tell everything to your current G/F and let her handle your ex! You can change your sim card also!

    Source(s): I am a counsellor.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    get a restraining order...clearly she is psychotic and doesn't function as a normal girl..

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