what do people mean when they say they don't support homosexuality? since it's not chosen.?

I'm gay and grew up conservative in a religious home and was the most conservative person religiously in the home. .IN fact there was a time when i was very young that I would have given anything to NOT be gay, so that pretty much proves it wasn't 'chosen' there are these first hand experiencers of the phenomena called GAY PEOPLE that you can ask. I never chose to be gay, so when somebody says that they don't homosexuality then whom are they speaking too? can't be the gay PERSON, because it wasn't chosen. are they saying that they don't support God/ and or nature's decision to create this trait?

if they say they don't support the 'homosexual lifestyle' then they're talking about something that doesn't exist.

for something to be a lifestyle it has to be both chosen and a behavior. homosexuality is NEITHER of those things. there are gay virgins. i was one until age 26, unlike my heterosexual friends who are much more sexual and lustful than me. I highly doubt millions of people all have the same lifestyle because they have one trait in common.

is there a blonde hair lifestyle? a black skin lifestyle? do all people with blonde hair live the same types of lives and have the same personality and values and beliefs?