I am three months pregnant now and will be a unmarried mother if I give birth to the child. Is suicide ok ?

Committing suicide may be the worse thing anyone can do because it is rejecting God's gift of life which destroys an opportunity for spiritual advancement. Not only that, some experiencers have observed the souls of those who committed suicide existing in an earthbound condition of temporarily being slaves to every consequence of their act of suicide. Such souls have been observed hounding and hovering around living family members and friends trying in vain to seek forgiveness.

You want to commit suicide due to a mental illness. One of life's lessons may be to learn how to cope with depression and overcome it. An overwhelming desire to commit suicide is one of the biggest indicators of clinical depression. There are many medications available on the market that can reverse clinical depression. If you are thinking of committing suicide because of depression, SEEKING MEDICAL HELP may be one of the smartest decisions of their life. So, you must go for it.By seeking medical help I mean 'ABORTION' in your case with a promise that you will never indulge in any sort of premarital sexual activities in future and you should no t postpone marriage.Tell your parents, when you have fully recovered after abortion, that you want to get married and set a life of your own. Be Brave and face the situation.

No! It is not.

Talk to your boyfriend. And if he says no, then keep moving forward. Perhaps you'll find someone better, who'll treat your baby as if it's his. And it's not impossible; my friend's mother married another man. They're divorced now, but he's always treated my friend as a daughter, and still comes over and makes sure she's doing well, and acts like a father figure.

There are good, responsible people in the world. If you can't trust your boyfriend to even support the child at the very least, then he's not one of them.

Besides, maybe he needs time.

But the end of a relationship doesn't mean the end of your life.

We live in an age of opportunity; women--whether they're mothers or not--can accomplish things they never could before.

If anything, don't you have family that could help you raise the baby?

Now, before you consider any of this, ask yourself this: Are you ready to be a mother?

Because if you're not, perhaps the answerer above was right about abortion. (Though I don't know if it's legal after three months. P.S. why are you asking all this three months into the pregnancy, when you're running out of options?)

Suicide is not the answer, unless you want to run away from your problems. A lot of people have done great things after surviving suicide attempts. And a lot more could've done great things if they'd decided to see things through and carry on. Unfortunately, they didn't. And many don't get to see their true potential, or what life might've had in store for them.

I know the future can be scary, but maybe once you face it, you'll come to realize it's not that bad after all.

Who knows, maybe in a few years you'll be with someone amazing, or doing something amazing, fully content with your life, wondering what you ever saw in your boyfriend and how you could've ever considered killing yourself.

Try living.

Try moving forward.

And maybe it won't be as scary as it seems.

Sweetie no. Suicide is the easy way out. The best thing to do is fight through this. And if you end up pulling through it all, U will become a strong woman and an even stronger mother for ur child. If he doesnt want to marry you, that is his loss on alot. Including the joy of experiencing bringing a new life into this world and being able to find out how amazing a love could be between a father and his child.

And for u... I pray that God will send someone to u to help u get through this hard time.. Suicide is never going to be the correct answer.

Feel better love..

Have you heard of the term Abortion? That's what you need, not suicide.

And, excuse me to say, what kind of boyfriend have you got who kept quiet for 3 months? Does he only know to get you pregnant, but not the basic fact that he should be taking you to a doctor, long ago? Take the initiative, just grab his collars and rush to a doc. Pregnancy is something where, the amount of time you pass, is proportional to the number of people who could recognize the difference in your belly. Smart people can make out that it's a baby inside. And the time passed will only make it medically dangerous to abort.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This too shall pass. It is not only suicide, it is murder for killing your unborn child. You need to be responsible, you were having sex with someone and got pregnant whenever you weren't married, you need to be an adult and handle the situation properly.

If you commit suicide after giving birth, you're not just effecting you... You're effecting your child. Are you THAT selfish, that you would let your child grow up, possibly knowing that their mother decided to kill herself right after giving birth to them.... Grow up.

Things will fall into place...

and being an Unmarried mother isn't a death sentence... trust me, I am one... and I'm doing just fine. I have a car, a house, and a happy 2 year old.

Unmarried, and single moms make it every day... you can to.

If you idiots pay attention this girl is from India, culture is a lot different there than here. Anyway. No marriage is not that end of the world. If you're ok with the pregnancy then just go through with it and see if anything changes or if your boyfriend comes around once you get further along. Good luck.

I'm not married...and I have 3 little boys and 31 weeks pregnant with my 4th little boy...why would you abort just for that reason and why would you kill yourself? You have so much to live for with this new baby on the way, it'll be the most precious thing in your life.

First of your boyfriend is a ***** if he does that. it's his responsibility that he made you pregnant and release his sperm into your body .

Second: that was both your choice to have sex

Three: suck it up and enjoy life because suicide is not the best answer

Four: that's just horrible and both of you are selfish

Five: tell him now and get it over with.. get the drama over with

six: smh

You can't really be that retarded.. Why wouldn't you just give the kid up for adoption, or be a single mom? I don't understand why girls think they NEED some guy. Plenty of moms have babies everyday, unwed, unsure, and sometimes unhappy. If this was something so disconcerning for you, why didn't you wait to be married in the first place?