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Our relationship got caught by my gf's mom!what to do???Help!!! I'm desperate!!! :(?

Ok.. this is the problem. Me and my gf are 17years old and we are having a nice relationship since 2010. My gf came online today on fb and told me that her mom had scolded her after geting know about our relationship and i couldnt ask much her about that since she logged off suddenly(she said theres a problem in her pc. Sometimes it gets overheated! It might be the reason for her to log off suddenly). what would you do or did when your relationship got caught by parents??? help!im desperate! thanks!

p.s - Her parents are a bit strict and I live in an Asian country where parents don't allow us to have relationships in this age unlike in western countries!

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  • Britt
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Here's the thing: Parents should be respected no matter what country you live in. Respect is universal, and it means the same thing in every language. In every culture, I couldn't say the same, but if you aren't abiding by the rules your parents (or her parents) have made, you automatically disrespect them. It is a poor move if you are interested in this girl, considering you are both still underage and therefore cannot technically and legally make decisions about your life in this way; you haven't made the best impression on her parents.

    Start out by apologizing for the fact that both of you disobeyed them. If they don't agree to a relationship, stay close (don't date behind their backs; it will cause you a world of hurt... if they found out once, they can find out again). Wait a couple years to become legal. Gain her parents' respect. If the two of you are still up to it, try again with her parents' permission.

    I hope this helps, and best of luck. Cheers.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Calm down. Try to convince her a "secret" relationship. If this doesn't work, try later in life, still be close and all, but wait till a few years.

    Source(s): I have no idea.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    keep calm and don't worry

    first get you and her to stop talking on fb and more on email. don't post on her wall and things like that because that's pretty much evidence. don't text her or call her. just email. tell her to tell her mum that you're just a friend.

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