gender scan confusion, pls help make your guess, did anyone go through this?

I have a 3 year old boy, pregnant with #2. I thought a girl this time should be good. At around 14 weeks my nausea was gone. Pregnancy was same like last time so I thought it would be boy again. Had a 2d scan at 15 weeks by a obgyn, he tried for long time, as the cord was between legs and could'nt see any boy bits he said it might be a girl, but asked me not to fix on it. Later I had a scan at 17-18 weeks (I'm getting more scans as I have cervical fibroid) again baby was not in position so doc said lets assume its still the same. My girl feeling became strong. At 20 weeks, had a anamoly scan, by a different doc, who saw boy bits said could be boy, baby was moving a lot, said will confirm next month. Its a emotional roller coaster for me, Now I don't mind boy or girl, just want confirmation soon :(