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To text Or not to text...?

I am falling for this girl I met on a dating site. We texted constantly for three days straight and our texts got really deep. We have discussed everything,

We both work two jobs and are really busy. The texting has slowed down but when we do text it is a lot and great. We have spoken on the phone on numerous occasions. I really like this girl.

Should I text her good night every night and good morning every morning or should I give her a few days to miss me?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Maybe try to text her saying when you want to meet up or something idk

  • 8 years ago

    Text

  • 9 years ago

    I would say give it an every other day thing. You don't want to get too involved with the texting, save that for your personal face-to-face meeting, but it's also good to help you get an idea of the person. Don't get deep into it, keep it very superficial. Until a couple dates have passed, I would say the good night and good morning texts are a no-go, unless she initiates. Hope this helps you.

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  • Ok...
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Babe, if you give her a few days to "miss you" she will miss you enough to allow another dude to move in on her. (If a guy didnt text me for a few days, I would think that he is "NOT interested" and make myself available to other men online for a real in person date.)

    Don't waste time; you are the man so man up and request to meet her, IN PERSON. That way you can see if she is truly the person you imagine she is. What if she has bad teeth, or a freaky voice? You may not be able to live with that... so meet her first, then begin the heavy texting...

    Good luck.

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  • 9 years ago

    Noo way I hate it when guys do that they're all Luvy duvy and then disappear... I think u should strike when the irons hot I think texting in the morning and night is super cute, that always let's me know this ones a keeper because he takes the time to let me know he thinks about me even with his busy work schedule

    Source(s): Female.
  • 7 years ago

    You actually know the answer to this question but it is conflicting with what you actually want to do. You want to text and talk to her, you want this to work but this is only going to hinder the chances and hinder your general control. The general rule is that as soon as the girl knows you are interested in her to stop texting first. Every text she sends you, you must reply but keep it to the point. 'When are we meeting then?' Keep the goal in hand. Say if it ***** up and you don't talk for about 2 months, your in the clear to text first because you have already have the point to her that your not chasing. In this case you would text summut like 'WO I haven't spoke to you in ages you alright?' Don't fall for being a needy preditor. If it doesn't work move on respect yourself.

  • Me being a girl, I'd love to wake up to a really amazing guy texting me saying 'morning or going to sleep with a cute g'night :)

  • 9 years ago

    text good morning in the later side of the morning. no one likes to be woken up by a text

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    give her a few days to miss you that way maybe she ll appreciate you more and enjoy her life more with love then she wont be sad ))': x

    Thanks so much! Take Care! God Bless! Best Wishes! smiles((: x

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It seems like its at the point where you should ask her if she wants to meet up

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Definitely do it! A girl likes to feel loved, and ignoring her for a few days or so is like playing games. Don't play games, and go with your gut instinct!

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