Husbands and Double Standards?

I can't tell you how many nights in the past 8 years I have woken up to find my husband up in the living room on his computer- or in the basement or living room sleeping.

Tonight, I can't sleep- so I got up. (mind you the ONE time i've done it in 8 years) and all of the sudden it's a huge ordeal. He comes out and turns the A.C off- then he asks if I can turn the tv down (i hardly have the volume up). Then I went into the kitchen and quietly made some tea- next thing I know he is in the kitchen getting into the drawer digging out his ear plugs.

I mean SERIOUSLY? I can already see what is going to happen tomorrow- he is going to be "soo tired" and if I say anything about not being able to sleep (I am also 8 months pregnant and our 3 year old has been up half the night coughing from a cold) all I will hear about is how he had it sooo much worse- etc....

Do most husbands turn out like this? *sigh*