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Sarika asked in Social SciencePsychology · 9 years ago

Abortion - How to get it done ? Thanks to all those who adviced me not to suicide.?

I am still being mentally tortured. Many questions ponder over me like :

Who to approach for my abortion ? Do I tell that I am unmarried ? Will the doctor be willing to get me aborted ? Do I have to give my parents name ? Before going on the operation table, someone has to sign to give the doc full powers, who will do that ? How will I feel after the abortion and will I be able to handle all myself ? Is it legal ? How much is expected as the cost of the abortion? Thanks,as all of you have always been helping me.

Are any of you reading this is a gynae doc? May I approach you?Presently ,I am in Lucknow.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Consult a doctor (Gaina) he will advise you better and help you. Its to clean the uterus through vagina provided pregnancy is not over and abortion is as per the law of land. Thanks.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Actually, I am not in favour of abortion though it may prove difficult for to face the society. You have to be strong enough to face the situation. This also depends on your parents as regards his status in the society. If a reputed woman like Indira Gandhi can give birth to two kids,Sanjay and Rajiv ,with different fathers, without being married then why can't you ? Have the courage, dear Sarika. I think you can do it. Never feel guilty of having done something wrong, then only you can win over the situation.

  • 9 years ago

    Go to a free clinic planned parent hood. Nobody judges you. Everything confidental. You do give a emergency number just in case something does happen. But most likely nothing will. Also after the procedure youll be very emotional and have a feeling of period cramps. Everyone is different. I didnt feel too bad. But if you feel u can not support this baby then just keep in your mind its for the best. Good luck. Also you do have to tell someone so they can drive you so u can get the medication you need during the process. I did it the hard way because i had to drive my self and you cant be drugged and drive.

  • 9 years ago

    Hey sweetie, it sounds like you need counselling and support quick-smart. Don't even contemplate suicide - this problem WILL be able to be resolved and life WILL go on. The world is a better place WITH YOU!! Truly, NOTHING is worth suiciding over. NEVER EVER. I'm a female in my forties and experienced my fair share of angst in my 20s. Life is now great! Everything is get-overable, honestly. I'm in Australia - I don't know where Lucknow is unfortunately. Go to your local hospital if or women's medical centre for advice. And don't be afraid - there will be a person or people there who are more than happy to help. Lots of love and light, N.

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  • 9 years ago

    Dont do it - have the baby and give it up for adoption - this way you'll be helping a couple who is struggling to have a baby , second you'll be saving a soul and third which I think is the most important , you'll be saving yourself the pain and any possible complications during abortion ... I heard about a woman who opted to abort her baby and ended up having her ovaries removed because the doctor wasn't a pro ... don't risk it

  • 9 years ago

    Up to 8 weak doctors give tablets for abortion. Don't be so tensed simply meet a doc with your bf. 2 days back I too met a doc with my wife for same problem. Good luck

  • Alok T
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Whatever you have to do, do it fast. The time ticks away very fast. If you are indecisive you will be in a lot of trouble latter. Just drop into a doctor you will know all about the formalities. No point in sitting and planning.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    the only situation that legally banning abortions might do is create a spike interior the sale of coat-hangers. Sophrosy... is solid, the common style of youngsters born to low IQ households is 5, the common born to severe IQ familes is a million.5, so abortions for the stupid will sparkling up ALOT of issues. Thumbs down givers, clarify how i'm incorrect.

  • 9 years ago

    Call the nearby clinic, and ask these questions. Honestly it's different for every doctor.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Go yo/call Planned Parenthood. Tell us whst city/country ur in. Seek counseling.

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