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Nearly 22 and still a virgin?

Ok I'm a 21 year old bloke, turning 22 in a few weeks.

I'm never had sex before.

I have been in a relationship with a girl a couple years back, but she was afraid to have to have and the further we ever got was oral sex (and that was a bad experience).

I have had a couple more girls since my ex, wanting to have sex with me but those relationship went south after a few weeks.

I finding myself really insecure about not having sexual interaction, since the majority of my friend have sex, and many of my friends making me feel crap about myself. Including one of my friend, who want to pay for an escort, just so I can prove to him that "I'm not gay".

I also find that many girls would not accept me because I'm still a virgin. I just finished my Bachelor of IT and I have picked up many time when I've been out clubbing, so I know I'm doing something right.

I don't meet a lot of females and most of my friends are males. I just feel like I'm the only person on earth who hasn't had sex at my age and I just find it hard to meet females.

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  • 9 years ago
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    Awww don't worry boo,, you'll find your princess some day. Fck the haters, that's what I say. A man your age that's still a virgin? Many girls find that attractive. It shows where your priorities are. Especially the fact that you graduated college. Definitely do not go for the clubbing girls, they won't appreciate the great package that you are. Try to pick up women at like a library or coffee shop, a sweet girl of some sort that will appreciate your virgin status. But most importantly you need to have confidence. Stop worrying that you're a virgin, let that out of your mind. Let go of that insecurity of yours and girls will notice, trust. Keep your head up, it'll happen one day, promiseeeee :)

  • 9 years ago

    Just keep trying! Your still young plenty of time. I'm a girl 18 and I'm still a virgin, by choice. I dont meet alot of guys because I'm shy an really busy with my career and study. I'm attractive and all the right things, just not found the right guy. Perhaps its the same with you?

  • 9 years ago

    Don't worry abou it! I find it attractie when a guy is a virgin. Save it for rhe right gurl. She will come along(:

  • 9 years ago

    go visit a prostitute ... you'll never need see her again and you can take pics of her naked body to show your friend.

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  • 9 years ago

    Good for you

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