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should I come or not?

Im thinking if I should come to our team outing/building or not? because one of my teammates hates me, He is accusing me of spreading rumors/gossips about him behind his back (which is not true), we are avoiding/ignoring each other every day at work, now Im not sure if I should come or not, its kinda hard to have fun and enjoy if your avoiding someone, and besides Im feeling kinda out of place or left out cause he influence some of our teammates as well

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Think, what's your motivation about hesitating. You don't want simply to go or you don't want to go cause of this douchebag?GO. I wouldn't sit home cause there's one douchebag who thinks he's right always there.

    It will be good to take him and you and say to him straight and honestly that you're not spreading rumours about him and try to change his mind and say him why you do you get from all this if you're spreadin these rumours.If it does not work , ignore him and pretend like you don't see and hear him.. Sooner or later he will understand that you had not any motivation to do these bad things.Be confident. The one who laughs first laughs last.

    Source(s): Life experiences.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Keerigan,, Never leave somethin' or place your workin' in cause of someone (If U Enjoy It) JUS be & act normal if he's really lien' dunn do anything unless if he said that among ur teammates and u're there .. Deal with it and say this's PooL **** i didn't say anythin' from that about anybody and jus turn around and walk ;))

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If i was in your situation, i would go. I wouldn't care less for whoever is insecure about themselves if i have not done anything to wrong. Go and mingle with the rest of your colleagues, as not showing up probably reaffirms what they may be thinking of you thanks to your other colleague. So showing up and mixing with everyone as if the other colleague does not exist will probably change their mind about what they may or may not think of you. But bottom line, you can't please everyone...just go and have fun.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    you should go because if you go in another place again same thing happens then what will you do..so go and just don't give a damn about him

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