An ex wants to be friends with benefits.....is this disrespectful or just me?

Oh - so you're not good enough to be his girlfriend, y'all don't get along as friends, so he wants to just have sex with you??? At least he's honest, but you seriously have to ask?!

Either have sex with him or don't, but don't complicate it by ever thinking it is or will be anything but fwb. And you're not even friends, guess that makes you ... something else you don't really want to be.

Just say no. Trust me on this one.

The mistake you're making is that you're letting HER call all the shots. She wants her cake and to eat it too. She cares for you and loves you, but isn't sure what the future holds for you. So she insists that you hang around until she can decide. Well F that! Read here https://tr.im/YWAdd

Here's what you do my friend... you move out as you said you would. Make it VERY clear that you love her, that you care about her, and that you'd like to think that you can make it through whatever hard times you two are experiencing together. But that you're not going to waste your time on a woman who wants you to spend the night, just so she can sleep on the couch. It's ALL or NOTHING, and you're tired of wondering where you really stand with her. Leave the ball in her court, and then stop calling her. Stop text messaging her. Stop emailing her. And don't respond unless it's and invitation to discuss the nature of your relationship.

Women love knowing that you're going to stick around no matter what so that they can take their time trying to figure out if they really love you or not. So take away that security and MAKE her miss you! Maybe then she'll appreciate what she almost lost!

No I would be offended too. In fact I'd probably tell him that it wasn't good enough for me to continue any sort of sexual affair with him. I don't think I could be cool with him like that. Just drop him. I mean some girls may go for that - especially if they knew it was all about sex from the jump - but not if you two tried a relationship and you actually cared for him - no that's not right at all.

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/Qlwgj

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Unless you are dating, it is not disrespectful for him to be all over another girl, even if you're there. That's the point of friends with benefits - no strings, just sex when convenient for both. If you don't like it, don't agree.

He wants to be friends with benefits (TRANSLATED: He wants the ability to f**k you without any of the "ties" of a relationship). He's a broke-d!ck-dog who doesn't care about you as a person; he only cares about what he can get from you (READ: Cheap, no-strings sex). Kick his sorry @$$ to the curb.

He's basically telling that the lay was good you can have a freebee whenever you want till you're nolonger single.

Not really he just think your good in bed and you guys can have sex until you have another boyfriend.

The WHOLE THING is just plain "disrespectful." Find yourself a decent boyfriend, and forget this one.

Ya that hitler dude said it good right there