Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?

Yes Venus. I used to live with a gal who would cheat on me on occasion. I never actually caught her red handed, but sometimes she'd come home obviously fresh from having sex. It was difficult to deal with. I loved her! I was jealous and angry and hurt! Yet, deep down, I'd be so turned on when she got home that all was forgiven. It took years to understand those feelings!

I've cheated on people before,and I've also been cheated on.That's why I believe that open relationships are the way to go.Not that people should take advantage of their relationship being open often,but a whole lot of people in long term relationships do tend to stray at some point,it's just human nature.So it's always good to have the cheating end of a relationship a bit open,so that if/when it happens it won't ruin everything all together.I'd rather forgive someone I love for their mistakes than to run away because of them and vice versa.

ive cheated before. I was sitting next to the banker in monopoly and while they werent looking i took a few $500 bills.

and ive never been cheated on.

I cheated on my ex bf after knowing he cheated on me several times. It was totally out of the norm for me and I didn't intentionally go out with the girls to cheat. He used to stay out all hours of the night and sometimes all night and one night I told myself "screw this! I'm going out with the girls!" Then at the bar, was my friends stripper brother who had always had a crush on me. I got drunk and I did it like a champ. The next day he suspected and knew cuz it was out of the norm for me. He wound up leaving me for another woman later on down the road and then she left him and he wanted me back. He's still my ex. Some men truly only think with their schlongs.

I've never cheated or been cheated on, but I once kissed a guy who had a girlfriend. She was a ***** and deserved it anyway.

i've cheated on a test before but i've never been cheated

Same here - never cheated but been a victim.

never been in a " relationship " i have enough issues about myself without expecting anyone else to show any interest , but for what it's worth no i would not cheat..

It wasn't the cheating I minded , so much....it was the way I found out.

Surely you've heard me tell the "surprise breakfast in bed story"........and she wasn't alone.

Should have made more toast.

The killer part was.........I was baby sitting her kid the night before, so she could have her "girls night out" .

So I was not only a sucker.....but also had my heart ripped out.

Never to both.

Never have, never will, never give my partner any reason to cheat on me.