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im so confused and heartbroken?

ok I need some advice my boyfriend is schizophrenic and ive always know this it hasnt been a very seriouse at all he takes meds,but the other night we were sleeping together and he thought I said his brothers name!I of course didnt say this he started telling me that I wanted to be with him just really freaking out.I kept trying to reasure I didnt say this He didnt believe me.he hasnt texted me in two days Im so confused and hurt Iwould never do this.I just need some advice to deal with it thank you.

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  • cami o
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
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    WOW!!! Sounds like a movie or something...seriously....

    Ok...the way I see this- IS that this is how schizophrenia poisons at a 2:1 ratio....The schizophrenia hurt both of you...NOT JUST YOU or NOT JUST HIM....

    Because you have not communicated with him in two days, I would say that this is a good opportunity for you to really consider your choice...ARE you ready to live like this for the rest of your life with this man (I KNOW ITS NOT HIS FAULT) but I mean are you mentally strong enough to deal with things like this....Its going to happen again where he hears something, or sees something....so what I am trying to say is that maybe a good chance for you to walk away from a bad deal. You can always be his friend and maybe help him with his meds....Poor guy, and poor you!!!

  • 9 years ago

    Get his brother to talk to him. You may have to let him go for your own safety though. Schizophrenia runs in my family and I can say from experience you may not be able to convince him, and it may even make him violent. Meds don't fix all their problems.

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