my friend always compares our lives?

i feel you... my ex bff used to do this all the time. and thats why she is my ex. i mean, wtf???!! its my life and i have every right to do what i do. and NO ONE CAN JUDGE ME especially by my mistakes. so what if your life sucks! its not my fault you retarded *****!!!!! **** off. wow, that felt good. no, you have every right to be upset and mad about this. just forget about her she talks bullshit!!! :PPP

Your friend is not comparing her life to yours. She's actually insulting you by the way she points out your short coming and/or failures. That's not a very nice thing to do unless you asked for her opinion. The thing about your husband is discountable and something that can be understood between friends but the rest is not good. Tell her how you feel and ask her to not be so critical of the things you do.

Grammer? You mean grammar don't you? Instead of apologizing why not try and think about what you are writing? You might have used the available spell check on this but you opted not to do that either.

I think she lacks a filter in her head and mouth. I thinks what you do is not right according to her own "book of laws," and thus she does seem to judge you. She's expressing her views on your situations, and you can either just brush it off with that's just her opinions and beliefs and not take it personally. Because her opinions have nothing to do with who you are, it has to do with who she is and how she sees the world. So, I wouldn't take it personally because it requires too much emotional energy expenditure. Now, also remember that depending on your level of self-love and self-respect, you will only tolerate so much as you believe you deserve of disrespect and self-abuse. You either say to yourself, this is where the line is drawn or she needs to do more damage to your self-esteem before you can say, ok this is where I draw the line. So, if you have enough respect for yourself...you either communicate to her about it or you walk away. Btw, I would be upset by it...perhaps, she feels crappy about herself and in order to make herself feel better she tries to put you down.

she isnt a good friend she leaves of hurting you becasue you tolerate it...i bet she wouldnt hesitate to sleep with yo hubby and take what is yours...i bet she envies your life secretly and has alot of self esteem issues you need to get a new friend trust me i know cause i have friends who like to put me down cause the are simply failing and arent trying... yes life has its ups and downs and i beleiev a true friend is one that puts aside his/her emotion to help u celebrate or help you get through a problem as you would for them...so am ditching my riends one at a time and its working better off alone than feeling uncomfortable with who you are...but i have a few friends who are good pals am keeping those

You have all the rights to be pissed at your asshole friend.

I actually know how this feels, I keep getting compared to people and everything.