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why wont he ask me out? does he really love me? need help advice anyone?

before the summer for a few weeks i hookedup with this guy jeff, we were like "friends with beni" but then i ended it over the summer because i wanted a relationship and he never asked me out, he didnt know that until this school year, all i said was i was done. this school year we started hookingup again and he knows this time i want to date him , ive told him that and he tells me he'll ask me out soon, but doesn'b and he tells me he really loves me, and told one of my friends that too.

i dont understand whats going on? does he only like me to hookup because that what i think, but then i hear that he really likes me, so why cant he ask me out??? ive mentioned this to him before

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    He probably wants to only hook up, especially if he is prolonging what he said he will do which is ask you out, you should probably play hard to get until he notices what he doesn't have he will want. I felt the exact same way before since I always hooked up with this guy, but it never seemed like we would be together, I ended up starting to do my own thing and hanging out with my girls a lot! He then felt the need to text me constantly and say he misses me and wants to see me! I've been with him for a while now and we are madly in love with one another! We had time to get to actually know one another and noticed we had many similarities! Probably you should stop with the hooking up and get to know him more, see his true colors if its love or lust you will know. Good luck!

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