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Am I acting sensibly with my fiancé ?
My fiancé and I have been together for a really long time and well... I still can't help but feel jealous when he goes out with friends. I mean, I don't text him constantly when he is out and when he talks to me while out with the guys I quickly end texts or calls cause I want him to go back to it, and have fun. And even though I act totally chill with it on the outside , I feel guilty for being jealous and not being there . I mean, I know I can't have him all to myself, and I wouldn't even want that. And yet he can read me like a book and sometimes calls me out on being jealous and asks if I want him to stay home, which, I always say no and just let him go, but then he worries. Am I acting sensibly? Should I tell him I get jealous sometimes ? Or should I keep doing what I am doing?
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- MMLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
So what's stopping you from going out or doing something you enjoy that you don't get to focus on while you're with him? The best cure for unwarranted insecurity (at least, I'm assuming it's unwarranted, since you don't mention him doing stuff that makes you jealous when you're with him) is to find something that takes your mind off it, especially if it's something that reminds you that he's not up to anything you wouldn't do. And if that doesn't do the trick, then you really need to consider postponing any marriage plans until you've resolved this issue with the help of counseling and/or time to mature.
