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Risk of getting pregnant does he just not care?
so this is a weird question but my bf and i have been dating for a year and 7 months within the first 3-4 months of dating he stopped using condoms and the 2nd month of dating he told me he love me in the most romantic way he knows that i am not on birth control but he still chooses to use the pull out method he is 20 years old so he is well aware of his actions no excuse of being young does he just not care if i end up pregnant or not i dont understand why he chooses to not use any protection at all
8 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
Of course he doesn't care. If you get pregnant, he takes off, and you get left with the responsibility. There are no consequences for him. You have to take responsibility for yourself.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Well YOU should maybe take the birth control pill, you can't be too worried about getting pregnant either if you've been letting him use the pull out method for so long. There are many other types of contraception, which you can also use. You can get std's from not using anything so you have to be careful. Best of luck, Hope I helped x
- 9 years ago
No he doesn't care... If he cared he wouldn't take the risk. Although done people use the pull out method and never get pregnant. Me and my husband (we are separated) used the pull out method for about 3 years and I never got pregnant. We have had scares where he thought he may not have pulled out soon enough or if my period was late, which it's kind of irregular anyway.
- Jennifer LLv 79 years ago
WHY ARE YOU NOT ON BIRTH CONTROL?!?
Do you really think this guy is going to stick around if you do get pregnant? You need to take some of the responsibility for birth control yourself. But the reason he isn't using a condom is because you're willing to have sex with him without a condom.
Do you WANT to get pregnant?
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- CazLv 69 years ago
Your risk is not just that he doesn't pull out in time. Some seminal fluid can leak out before he pulls out so you may still end up pregnant anyway. You need to talk to him about it, and if you can't then you should not be having sex. Oh, and if he tries the old 'If you loved me.....' line your answer is 'If YOU loved ME....' You could also try telling him that a baby is expensive.
Source(s): Mother of 2 who's father really didn't care about my feelings. - 9 years ago
I suggest starting birth control (pills, shot). The shot is effective right away but the pill takes a month or so to become effective. Tell him that you're not willing to risk accidental pregnancy any longer and that you care too much about your health to let him risk it. Plus, is he going to want to pay for diapers, formula, check ups, clothes, toys, crib, carseat, etc.
Source(s): Me. - 9 years ago
Because you let him not use protection. Stand up for your health and well being instead of laying down and taking it. He doesn't care and the pull out method isn't much of a method.
- JewelLv 79 years ago
I'd say he not only doesn't care, he's TRYING to get you pregnant. I'd be very uncomfortable with that.
Either start using your own BC, or start dating someone else.