My First Kiss (and im 17 how embarrassing) ..... HELP ME PLEASE .. ..?

Why should that be embarrassing?? Just because other 12 and 13 year old kids want to keep playing pretend and try acting older (which is just plain immature), kissing the first person that comes along? No, don't be embarrassed.

Kissing comes really naturally, so you have nothing to worry about(; It's not complicated at all, and it's not too hard to master either.....idk if you wanted like a crash course on kissing or something like that hahaa but I guess I'll give you some tips(:

-Go slow

-Be gentle

-Let the guy kiss you first(lean in)

umm okeii So when he leans down to kiss you, barely brush your lips against his and then just get back. It's kind of like teasing, and he's going to get this horribly amazing feeling cuz he's going to want you so bad. So he'll probably try kissing you again (if he doesn't then you can go ahead and kiss him). then just go with it.

If you want to french kiss, then when you're kissing, open your mouth slightly and try putting your tongue in his mouth slowly. (You have to be careful here, cuz you want to be really gentle and you have to do it slow in case he doesn't want to french kiss) If he opens his mouth too, then just play around with his tongue, do some exploring. Sometimes you can bite his tongue softly, but be careful because some people have extremely sensitive tongues and might not like that. Tongue sucking is another thing you could try..you technically just suck his tongue. Oh yea, and close your eyes. It's kind of awkward to be looking at someone's eyes when they're so close. Some people like it though, so it's up to you. But since it will be your first time, then I would suggest closing your eyes.

Your hands could be either on his chest, wrapped around his neck, lightly touching his cheek or chin, on his hair...

Just take it slow and go with the flow. Don't rush things, you'll be fine! Hope I helped!! Happy kissing((;

Not at all i am 17 as well and never been kissed. Though i am waiting till marriage. Either way it's not wrong i know other guys that are 24 years old and never kissed a girl and they are perfectly fine.

OMG, I know how you feel, ok, I'm 18 now but i remember my first kiss when I was 14 I got so nervous because it was with the guy I liked! Well it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be... Just cool down, don't try to be his BEST kiss, just try to get through this smoothly.. For starters remember it's not a competition, its not who gets their tongue more down someone mouth! Put the right amount of tongue in and just smoothly slide your tongue on his tongue and try to follow his "moves" and you'll be fine! Don't worry sweetheart! Good luck (:

Kissing isn't complicated, it's surprising how naturally it comes. You shouldn't aim to be 'the best' - it's justs puts extra pressure on you that isn't necessary. Just go with the flow - he'll never know. But you shouldn't be ashamed of telling him it's your first kiss!

Just let him lead. Don't panic and attack him with your mouth (or worse, your tongue). If he slips you the tongue, then just move yours around his in whatever way feels natural. When the time comes, just believe that you are a good kisser, and you'll probably kiss pretty well.

not embarrassing!

don't tell him he's your first kiss... yet, go on a date, get him somewhere quiet... make the move/ let him make the move, be comfortable... lean in for the kiss... softly peck his lips, look into his eyes, keep kissing passionately. if you feell comfortable, use your tongue to slowly massage his.. you will know what feels right. after, ask him whether he liked it... if its positive, then you can tell him its your first kiss :P he might be surpised! good luck.

Not an option? Bullshit! No-one cares if it's your first, some even find that cute and makes them make it better for YOU! And if it is a terrible fail, telling him is an excuse that can convince him to let you try again!

Go get 'em sister! >=D