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What's your Forrest Gump Analysis?

I just want others' opinions on this movie and his relationship with Jenny..It's just for fun since I'm laying here getting over the flu and the movie keeps coming on back to back :)

Am I the only person who thinks that Jenny didn't really love him in that way and only came around when it was convenient for her? It's quite a tragic tale if you look from this standpoint. She ran off living her life, no cares about him and all this man ever did was think about her, writing her, visiting her and loving her unconditionally but she could never get past the fact that he was a little mentally disabled. I mean, she devastated this man so much that he ran across the country back and forth. Then, finally when she realizes she doesn't have long to live, she contacts him and tells him about a son he's never known about and finally lets him have her in the end because A.) Her son needed stability after her passing and B.) She knew she didn't have to put up with him that long. I think Jenny was selfish, what do you think?

Update:

Ohh..that's tragic, I didn't read the book but that's even worse and yeah, I was only saying one of the reasons she was selfish was because she kept a kid from him for 6-7 years btw.

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    9 years ago
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    Forrest, and maybe his mom too, is the only person between him, Jenny, and Lt. Dan who knows what love is right from the jump, whereas it takes Jenny and Lt. Dan the whole movie to figure out what Forrest knows already: love is not finding your own fulfillment, it's helping those close to you find theirs. Forrest loves Jenny unconditionally and it takes Jenny a while to figure out that the conditions that she does have actually don't matter so she comes back to him at the end, knowing that their son will be taken care of with the kind of love she didn't have.

  • 9 years ago

    yeah, i thought so too.

    In the book, at the end, its really sad because Jenny marries someone else.

    I guess the director wanted a happier movie.

    Forrest was just a tissue for Jenny

    Source(s): I got to pee
  • 9 years ago

    When Jenny was young she seems to care for him a bit, but later she essentially forgot about him. And towards the end, I think it was more need than love. So I think I am in somewhat agreement with you. I do not know if she was selfish, we all grow up and leave some friends behind.

  • 9 years ago

    Run Forest Run!

    Jennyyyyyyy!

    Life is like a box of chocolates, hell yeah!

    My shrimp Bubba!

    Lieutenant Dan! Want to play ping-pong with me?

    I like turtles.

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  • 6 years ago

    just read this:

    http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/1za...

    thought it was interesting and a different perspective you might want to read it

    "This is way late, but it needs to be said.

    Jenny from Forrest Gump. She gets so much goddamn flak from people who have seen the movie. It's like they tuned out completely at the normal human experience just because they think Forrest is adorable.

    Jenny didn't think she was in love with Forrest because she thought she was taking advantage of him the same way her father molested her.

    For ***** sake, Forrest is retarded. Jenny, out of everyone who's ever met him, knows this best of all. She knows that her closest friend and only loved one is a ******* idiot. Imagine that. Imagine for one second that the only person who was always kind to you was someone who didn't know any better. Everyone in the world who knew about your father looked at you either as a victim or as something disgusting, but that one man doesn't.

    And it's because he's retarded.

    Jenny doesn't think that way at the start. As a kid, she just thinks he's different and is just glad to have a friend. But as she gets older, especially as a teenager, she realizes that her closest friend will never mature like she does. He loves her like he would anything and everything else, so long as its nice or cuddly, like a pet or a sibling, at least in her mind. Her father treated her like ****, and there was no way in hell others didn't do the same when they found out she was molested. She would have wanted to feel loved.

    That's where she gets the abusive relationship crap. She wants so much to be loved that she doesn't understand that they are taking advantage of her. She thinks that as long as they aren't forcing her to have sex, that's normal. Getting beat on, pressured to drug addiction, and dragged around into whatever dangerously extreme political bands they're into is just fine, as long as they don't rape her. That's why she's so shocked when Forrest defends her from harm. Why would anyone do that if what they're doing to her is normal?

    She keeps leaving Forrest behind because she convinces herself that he doesn't really love her. She convinces herself that his affections are shallow, since he would never be able to really understand love either. I mean really, how many of you honestly think someone who is that mentally challenged could understand the complexities and nuances of love? There's no way they could. What they have is something simple, and Jenny doesn't think that could be real.

    And even IF she believed he could, even IF she got out of that abusive cycle, she knows better. FFS, if that scene with Forrest and her in her college dormroom had the genders reversed, people would be so ******* uncomfortable about that scene because it'd be inching so close to rape. Jenny knows that. She realizes that. That is why she shuts off her feelings for Forrest, above any other reasons to stay away: she thinks she is molesting him. She saw how uncomfortable he was when she did that and thought holy ****, what the hell am I doing?

    Can you imagine how twisted you must feel after realizing in that moment that you turned into the father who molested you? How the **** can you love yourself after doing that to your best friend, when you know what that's like? Would you ever let yourself get close to them again if you really cared about them?

    So Jenny kept running away. Every time Forrest gets close and saves her, she runs off before she falters. She won't let herself get near him, and as the movie goes on, she fails a little more each time. First she blows him off after the strip club, telling him to stay away. Then she walks with him in DC, but still leaves with her boyfriend. Then she stays with him in his house and finally sleeps with him, after that one critical moment.

    When he tells her he does know what love is, and asks her why she doesn't love him.

    She finally gives in and does sleep with him, but can you imagine thinking afterwards? Would you, in her shoes, with absolute and unwavering certainty, think you did the right thing? Or would you be afraid that you did exactly what you had been avoiding because you do actually care that much about him?

    So she runs away. She hides her child from him, because she thinks he shouldn't have to worry or pay for something he can't handle. She thinks she's wronged him, and the least she could do is set things right by raising a good child, without dragging him down.

    And then she gets sick. Doctors don't know what it is, but she's going to die. Her kid is only a few years old. Can you imagine struggling with that decision to tell your victim that they have a kid and now they have to take care of it because you're going to die? That's what she struggles with before coming to terms with the fact that she's happy with him, and he's happy with her, and that's what love actually is. It's something simple and unconditional, and even Forrest can understand it.

    It takes her her whole goddamn life to figure out that love is just that simple, and she dies months afterwards. She realized she had been running away from what made her happy, and it isn't wrong, and she only gets so much time together before it's over.

    And instead of realizing that narrative even exists in the story, people just ***** about how Jenny is such a slut, but she won't even love the only person who cares about her. Jenny always loved Forrest, during the whole ******* movie. She loved him so much, she thought she was taking advantage of him and ran away for his sake. She didn't realize she was wrong until it was almost too late.

    ****, that's depressing."

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