Would you be mad if your spouse was recording you behind your back?

He should ask you first OR unless it was to like an erotic surprise or something...

Feel free to email me the video if you want :)

First of all, just because you have kids doesn't mean he wouldn't show anyone. Guys don't think like we do...they'd show everyone!

Now, would I be mad? Hell, yeah!!! That's such a violation of trust! How could he respect you (being the mother of his children) yet record you in this act? And then he tried to hide it? What I don't get is that the only reason you were mad was because he didn't ASK first! Seriously?????

You say you have kids, so why on earth would you want ANY recording of you having sex ANYWHERE, with or without permission?

i went to my boyfriends house for the first time last year,

well while i was putting our baby to sleep my boyfriend was in his room, i thought he was changing clothes.

then finally we had sex, afterwards he got up and told me i should check on the baby and he will be there in a minute. i was like ok thats normal, so i go and check on him, still sleeping. and my bf came and cuddled with me on the couch, everything seemed good.

about a week later he was going out of town, and when he was leaving he said he will miss me but at least he can watch the video as many times as he wanted.

i said what video and then he told me he recorded it when i went to his house

i was mad, but he never showed it to anyone, and finally his phone broke so its gone now

but u have a right to be mad, but if u trust him then nothing to worry about, but just tell him that he should have asked

Yeah, I'd be pretty upset...that's a violation of trust and privacy...incredibly rude and possibly damaging because no matter if he wouldn't intentionally show it to anyone else, doesn't mean that no one else will ever see it (and it could do damage to your career, future opportunities, etc if it went public)...

Unless someone wants to be a porn star, recording their sexual activity can be a HUGE mistake...doing it without a person's consent should be illegal (perhaps it is in some places)...

Don't kid yourself he won't show it to anyone. Yes I'd feel very angry he recorded us having sex without my knowledge or consent. What kind of person does that? If he was afraid to ask because you would say no then that is even more reason to be mad!

if you believe he wouldn't show anyone, whats the big deal then?

I'm still a bit lost trying to figure out what sort of sex act i could be doing where a woman is behind my back recording, and i'm not coming up with any pretty pictures.

Furious. Our sex life belongs to the two of us. He can't choose to tape, record or share it with others without my knowledge or consent.

What kind of dope does that?

Absolutely. This was a private moment and it should be consensual on both parties.

My wife always gets mad when she catches me taping us. Oh well. I still do it.

Absolutely , I'd want to know so I could comb my hair .