Why do some girls fall for the 'tell her what she wants to hear'?

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I know someone (female) who frequently uses that sleazy Plentyoffish website.  She meets guys and she tells them her issues and then she tells me that the guy is amazing, understanding, loving and potential bf material. She said he liked sex 3 times a day etc

One guy stopped with her for 4 days, then didnt see her again, said that there was a sporting event he would rather attend.  She didnt hear from him again... that was last Saturday.  Monday just gone, she is at some other bloke's house and saying that he could be the one. This guy likes sex alot.   She is staying with this guy for a week.

Why do women fall for it.  I tend to think like a bloke and I know this one will end in tears! Personally, these blokes have sex on tap for a few days.  There is not chase because she sleeps with them within 24 hours of meeting them. 

Then, when it is time to part ways.... the guy drops her like a cold bag of sick!  I have told her that she should not give it up so easily because they are just after one think by telling her what she wants to hear!

Why????

Sun is Shining ❂ · Accepted Answer

Because women like your friend are naive and think that giving themselves away after a few hours is the way to a man's heart.  The man is thinking 'Great!  Free sex without having to do any work to impress her enough that I'm worth it'.  His next thought is 'She sets the bar way too low for opening her legs.  I bet I'm not the only one she's shagging'.  And off he goes.

? · Answer

properly, you won't be able to fairly tell if a woman likes you till you ask her out. attempt asking her out as a pal and then IF she likes you ask her to be yours and in the experience that your nevertheless questioning "how am i able to tell if she likes me" the similar old signs and indicators are eye contact at the same time as both truthfully one of you is speaking or at the same time as she's talking to you she receives fearful and receives awkward, from there it is your job to make the strikes because she's now unlikely to and in case you do not, you'll lose her and believe me you want to be quick at the same time as making your strikes in the different case she'll be wondering "why hasn't he requested me yet?" then she'll start up to imagine that you 2 are in simple terms acquaintances. start up making your strikes now or it's going to be too previous due, in simple terms bear in mind she's a ***** so shes scared too no offense yet yeah be a guy about it.

John J. S · Answer

Ever think its the wrong question?  Maybe its not so much we say what she wants us to say, but that she only hears (or reads) what she wants to hear?  She is obviously desperate for affection and that makes her vulnerable. there's sharks in them thar waters, mate, and hunts don't have to be long to be successful.

Just beccause she rolls on the first date doesn't mean it was a short hunt for the male.

Anonymous · Answer

Well if they tell you what you wanna hear, you'll fall. Faking love comes easy for men but women arn't faking. But i agree she shouldnt give it up that's fast until she's sure he's gonna stick around... Ive only had one partner my whole life

. · Answer

Why??? Needy, insecure, wants to feel desired, doesn't understand that sex doesn't = affection/love...

This belongs in Singles & Dating...

Anonymous · Answer

Who cares why??? It's not your business or ours. You really do have to learn to live and let live. Why on earth are you so focused on someone else's life? Get on with your own. You sound like some kind of stalker.

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Why do some girls fall for the 'tell her what she wants to hear'?

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