Why can't I be faithful?

You CAN be faithful, you are choosing not to be. You're weak, you need to control yourself.

a lot of cheating relates too

1 : Mid-life crisis, (Even if you're Young ,weird but it happens)

2 : Social standard , Anymore a lot of guy's think being a player's cool, (i dont think that's your case though, but put some thought into it anyways)

3 : is

but honestly you're cheating may relate to Stress, like problems at Work , problems with family, or even just arguing with you're friend. just being stressed ,so you're brain automaticly guess's what's the easiest way to get this off of my mind, and most of the time it relate's to a woman's company, rather it's just talking or Physcical. i think it's stressed related , maybe the commitment scares you in a way? like you're gonna be tied down for life? or there's always the thought that it gives you some sort of Rush, makes you're life feel Exciting and on the edge, believe it or not crap like that achauly happens , but i Really have to guess Stress related , Hope that helped :)

You sound like a spoilt little boy - who cheats, just because he can. Get over yourself and start showing your g/f some respect. surely it cannot be too hard to just keep it in your pants until you see you g/f next. BTW she's a law student, smart, pretty and treat you like a king....sounds like it is all about YOU, and how good she makes YOU look. Very shallow.

I kind of have this same issue..

I think its because we have the right people (for life). we fear we're gonna be trapped and be unhappy one day from our own insecurities, when you know you would'nt have it better in any other way, but oddly we think that the person we see and want to be unfaithful with will make us happy. but only in that moment.. and if we decided to be unfaithful we'd lose everything good we've come to know and our self respect..

Hope this makes sence to you...

Best of Luck, Make wise choices :)

If ur truly in love with her, u will try counseling for a while! And ull fess up to her!