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How can I get over the fact that my crush has had a previous sexual experience?
*This is JackFinch's friend, so don't go calling him gay and stuff*
So I'm in my last year of high school and I like this guy and he's really hot and cute and smart and nice and stuff, but... he's, at the very least, done stuff with a past girlfriend.
Just FYI, he's been through like a bazillion girlfriends back in his immature days, and one of them always ends up sucking her boyfriend's d**ks. All of them. And that's the only sexual experience he's had... that I've managed to dig up (JackFinch did some poking around for me, and that's all he could find too, and he's pretty good!).
I've never had a real boyfriend. I've gotten as far as little kisses and stuff, but I've never given head! And I just can't get over the fact that he's gotten it in the past. It's frustrating, because I really, really, really like him! :\
It's not that I think I'm going to be inexperienced and unimpressive to him because of that. I can't explain it. It's like... I feel uncomfortable knowing that somebody else has done that with him.
What do I do? I really want to get past this, but I get emotional and obsessive over the littlest things.
Help, please!
Thanks, guys. :) :) :)
What I'm mainly looking for here is a nice, intelligent statement telling me that I'm being illogical and silly. ;P
Because, you know, I'm having trouble convincing myself of that, haha. :\
2 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
Well you have to understand that the first guy you have sex or do something with, will probably not be the last. I know its weird and awkward that he's done it but .... well just think ;) hes washed his you know what so technically its like nothing has happen. Just try to ignore the fact that he has gotten a bj
- 9 years ago
I cant get over that stuff too, especially if they've gone all the way or something close. i think the best thing to do is just not think about it, because if you really like him, then you like him, and thats that! :) and if he likes you, he wouldn't care if you're inexperienced or not, if he does, then hes an asshole