Am I wasting my time?

A lot of men don't know how to be men anymore, and instead of just telling you, they will "hope you get the message." Just bluntly ask him, "So why arent you making an effort to see me?" If he avoids the question with a response like "oh, I dont know..." or doesn't answer, it simply means that he isn't really interested in putting effort into it, but he will take whats offered to him- whether thats sex or just spending time together. It's kind of like eating McDonald's; if its there and I am hungry, Ill eat it, but Im not going to make a special trip or go out of my way to go get a McDouble. The reason for this could be several things; either he has found someone else closer/ is interested in another person nearer to him, or now that he has to go out of his way to spend time with you, it isn't as worth it to him. That;s kind of like paying $5 for a Little Caeser's pizza; I'd pay $5 for it, but I wouldn't pay $10 for it. The other possibility is he doesn't really care one way or the other about you, but he doesn't have something else lined up; if Im hungry and broke, Ill eat meatloaf from three days ago, but if I have money, I sure won't. If this is the case, he will cut it off when he finds your replacement.

most relationship problems are solved by talking to your partner and see what each other actually want:P and try to come to an agreement(not like a contract) or break up on both agreements:) good luck:)

Talk to him and see what he thinks maybe you can figure out a way to make it easier for you and make your relationship better.

The best person to talk to about this is your boyfriend