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Is my dad trying to rape me?
So my dad and I have been pretty close since after my parents got divorced I used to just live with him till I was about 8. He got got re-married when I was like 6 and that's how I got my stepbrother Jacob who is a year older than me. This all started when my dad was talking to me at night while I was in bed and he was sitting on my bed. He layed down and started rubbing my back and then said goodnight and left. This continued for about a year. My dad likes hunting and finally bought some land and a trailor. One weekend just me and my dad were up there hunting and when it was nighttime I had to sleep in the same bed as him. So as usual it started off as rubbing my back but then he started getting closer to my boobs and I tried rolling over but it didn't stop him. He started rubbing my boob and I got scared and didn't know what to so I pretended I was asleep and finally he stopped. A month or so later we went hunting again and I was scared he was gonna do that again but didn't know if maybe he was doing that to me in his sleep. So anyways we went to bed that night and the same thing happened but even when I pretended I was asleep he kept going and then licked his finger and started rubbing my nipples. After that he stuck his hand down my pants and started rubbing my vagina and I was frozen because I was to scared to move. Finally he stopped. At home at night time he started coming into to my room and doing the same thing every now and then especially after he had been drinking. Then one night he did all the same things and this time I really tryed to stop him by rolling over or covering up with blankets e.t.c but then he took my hand and tryed to get me to touch his penis which I'm pretty sure had a errection. I pulled away as hard as u could and he
Stopped. Then haut the other night the same thing happened. I'm scared and don't know what to do. During the day he acts like nothing ever happened. I can't tell my step mom because she won't believe me and I don't have that great of a relationship with my mom and don't see her very often. I am trying to convince my
Parents to let me stay for 1 school year at my grandparents house an go to school there for "life experience" but I'm really trying to get away from him. I dont want him to go to jail and just wish I could live with my grandparents or my mom even. Please help me
P.s I'm 13
14 Answers
- QLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
Sweetie, call the Rape, Abuse and Incest Naitonal Network people at rainn.org: 800-656-HOPE. It's totally anonymous, and you can feel comfortable telling them everything and getting their advice, anonymously. But you NEED to get out of that house. ASAP!!! Like tomorrow! Frankly, your father SHOULD be in jail. And him going to jail won't be your fault--it's his fault! Tell your grandparents you need to get out of there right away, and please, you can't talk about it but it's an emergency. DO IT! For your own protection, try to be alone with your father as little as possible. If you can lock your door at night, do it. If you can lock it and also brace a chair against it to keep it shut, DO IT! And never go on vacation with him again! But those measures should only be needed for a few days, because you've got to get to your grandparents or your mother right away!!!
- Anonymous9 years ago
Is only gone get worse if you don't get away from him eventually he's gonna take his shot and go for actual ya'know..........It's alredy getting worse it started as boobs then vagina then trying to make u touch his dink , whatever happens you gotta move in with someone else or when he's gonna do it be like "what are you doing?!" because that's getting awful close to sex, if anything I would call a family member such as an antie,uncle or your grandparents and tell them to come get you . Whatever happens you better get outta there and fast!
Source(s): life - 9 years ago
Omg honey you need to get away if you don't feel comfortable that's not right he's your father you need to tell somebody maybe suggest your step brother or step mom to come along on those trips and you need to convince your parents to let you stay with your grandparents but you really do need to tell someone that's not right what your father is doing
- 9 years ago
Yes, do go live with your mom or your grandparents. Things may get worse than it already is. Is your Dad violent? Since you don't want him to end up in jail, you may opt not to tell anyone. He's still your dad but be calm and just tell your grandparents that you wish to live with them, ok?
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- 9 years ago
Hes probably drunk and horny not very good you need to get away from him anyone maybe some friends to stay the night with then i don't know catch it on tape then you have enough for a police report :( sorry this had to happen to you.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Rape in a dream skill somebody is violating you in some way. consistent with risk the way he use to handle u making u do issues against your will like making you end something you have been somewhat into or breaking up with a boyfriend u be attentive to something u had no administration over.
- 9 years ago
I do believe that he is possibly going to rape you, if you tell no one and do nothing about it. Please, please tell someone. It can be anyone from a teacher at school, one of your friends parents. I'm sorry if you don't want your dad to go to jail, but it's just wrong what he's doing to you, and damaging. I think it's best you tell police, before it goes to far.
I hope you will
Good luck, and please tell someone, you wont regret it in the long run.
- 9 years ago
Next time you go to your grandparents have them call CPS. Don't leave out any details and if you're not going to your grandparents tell a trusted adult. Wish I was there to cut off his ******* dick for doing that. Don't waste any time
- 9 years ago
Sweetie, you have to tell someone, because it sounds like it has been escalating and it will probobly only continue to do so. If you can't tell your mom, go to a teacher or someone, but get help, quick. It's not your fault and he needs to get help for this too. I get that you love him, but you can't just put up with it and keep it to yourself.
Source(s): A friend went through something similar - Lost in a SeaLv 49 years ago
He is molesting you and it could get worse :( You seriously need to contact the authorities on this but if you do not want to do that, there are other options and I would be more than happy to share those with you if you want.