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ive been with my girl for over 8 Months and we still havnt had sex ?

i love my girl and for some reason we still havnt had sex im 16 shes 17 and we are both virgins and we mess about with each other and its a serious realationship but for some reason when i try to do it with her she doesnt want to i know its not her time of month i know when that is so what should i doo to have sex with her because we have talked about it

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  • EG
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    Maybe you should talk to her. She might want to save it for marriage. Some people want to save it because of religious beliefs or because they want it to be special to the person they're going to spend the rest of their life with. At your age, one doesn't know if you're going to be the one to spend the rest of their life with so maybe that's the reason it hasn't happened.

  • 9 years ago

    You are both young and it may be that whilst she likes the thought of sleeping with you she is just not ready. The only thing you can do is have an honest talk to her and say that you want to move the relationship on but want to make sure that she is ready for that as well and see what she says.

    Do not whatever you do just keep trying. You need to talk to her and find out why she doesn't want to if she is saying yes until you try. If you keep trying and she is not ready she is going to start resenting you and feeling pressured and that is not good for your future relationship.

  • 9 years ago

    You are too young anyway. If you cannot enjoy being without sex then move on to someone who is not as refined. And when you do, remember that two methods of birth control are needed and that girls can sometimes trick you if they want to become pregnant. Then you are truly ruined for life both financially and in other ways.

  • 9 years ago

    youe both very young so maybe she's not ready to have sex. or maybe she's a little scared, the first time can be scary. The only way your going to get to the bottom of this is by talking to her. it mite be hard and awkward to talk about but if you care about each other you need to beable to talk to each other. hope this helps!

    Source(s): life experience
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  • 9 years ago

    8 months no sex? I've been dating my bf for a few days and we have.. Many times XD we have feelings for each other btw, were not just horny little pr***s

    Anyway just try and have a talk again and tell her how you feel on the situation

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Bring it up again and have a proper talk? Maybe she still doesn't feel ready to go all the way - she's probably just nervous

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    maybe i think this is too obvious. but maybe she just doesnt want to have sex yet

  • 9 years ago

    well, if one of you is religious that could also be a reason why you do not have sex, because it could be a sin if you do it before marriage.

  • 9 years ago

    Talk about it again

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    tell her put out or get out. that stuff doesn't fly and that your hand only feels so good

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