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I got my gf a vibrator and it hurts?
I just bought my gf her first vibrator today. She's a virgin so I wanted to get her something she didn't have to put inside of her to get pleasure from. I figured the vibrations from a vibrator would work. I went with the "neon luv touch one touch 5 function bullet" it's small and I figured she could just use it around the outside of vagina.
Well she shoved it down her pants as soon as I showed it to her. I was a little pleased to see her enthusiasm but nervous to see her response. Well, I was right to be nervous because as soon as she turned it on she wanted to turn it off. She could not get it out of her pants fast enough. She said it was uncomfortable and actually painful. This was not the response I was looking for at all!
She said she put it right on her hole, so I wonder if maybe it might have to do with it being really sensitive on her hymen? But I really don't know much about the vagina so I dunno what it could be other than that.
She's out with friends now but with be home soon and is eager to experiment with her new toy (and me, of course). I really want this to feel good for her, but obviously if it's hurting her it wont feel good.
Can anyone PLEASE tell me 1) what the problem is. Do some girls just not enjoy vibrators?? or what? and 2) if there is a better way of using this thing on her. She is eager now, but she has a habit of disliking things too quickly if all doesn't go just right. And I know a lot of girls really enjoy it.
5 Answers
- Thrill KLv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
You might want to get her warmed up some before you use it as well.
Guys are like matches, we get hot and ready instantly.
Girls are like ovens, you have to warm them up before they are ready for action. But once they are warmed up...oh yeah!
The other posters have good ideas as well. Take everything into consideration,
- HoneyshucksLv 49 years ago
If she is a virgin and has not 'experimented' before i could have guaranteed she wouldn't enjoy it.
I suggest you both take time to get to know the layout of the vagina and not to just jump in, pardon the pun.
Your answers; 1) There is no problem, i highly doubt any girl would enjoy a vibrator just being thrust down there. 2) Try using it on the clitoris- its a small bump just above the urethra (pee hole) and is very sensitive and is the pleasure center for most girls...
- RichardLv 79 years ago
They take some getting used to and they are designed more for experienced women. If it's not adjustable, you can lessen the sensation by wrapping a soft cloth or thin piece of foam rubber around it. Make sure that whatever you use is clean and wash it afterwards to avoid bacteria.
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