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I am in terrible emotional pain...plzzz help?

hi there, plz listen to my problem and tell me what to do, i am a 25 years old guy and there is this 22 years old girl i know and we went out a few times and i like her and one day i introduced her to my 17 years old cousin and so...the three of us all started to hang out and have fun and....i told her that i like her but unfortunately....she said she doesn't feel any connection with me and she just likes me as a friend but....this is not the real problem, the real problem is that she told me that she likes my 17 years old cousin and she is dating him now....i really got heart broken and cried alot...what drives me crazy is that how can she date a guy younger than her by 5 years??? me and her are close in age but she rejected me and took my cousin who is 5 years younger than her, i regret the moment that i introduced my cousin to her, now i feel pain everyday and can't stand that she and my cousin are dating while iam left all alone

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  • 9 years ago

    Wow, our situations are kinda similar. I was a 16 year old female when my boyfriend started cheating on me with my 11 year old cousin. I feel your pain... it's like they can look right at you and just say nope, you don't matter. What's helping me is one day at a time. I know that my ex is sick/perverted, and damn it, he's hurt me long enough. Just distance yourself from her, your cousin, who by the way, if he knows that you like her, that is not a very cousinly thing to do at all. Try talking to a close friend about this, invite them over and have a heart-to-heart if you can (I know that guys don't normally have deep, soulful conversations, but maybe you've got a female friend?).

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • 9 years ago

    Maybe you should move on and start dating someone else. I feel that http://www.eharmony.com/ is a good website to find a compatible match.

    Source(s): IMO
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