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? asked in HealthWomen's Health · 9 years ago

Sex question, what could cause this?

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now, at lease twice a week or more. On friday night we drank a lot and had sex, and everything was fine. the next morning we had sex again, but my vagina was extremely tight, he said even tighter than the first time we had sex which was when i lost my virginity. the same this again happened today, and i dont know what could have caused this. after both times i have had spotting.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
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    ur probaly dehydrated so ur body isnt making enough fluid in ur vagina. also u could do some exercises to loosen up. the vagina is real flexible so u can make it bigger wit practice. try this:

    take some kind of lube or lotion and spread it all over the fingers of one hand and get as much in ur vagina as u can. then put in one finger then two then three but go slow and keep going till u cant take anymore. do this every day if u can and keep using more and more fingers. u could also have ur bf do it if he wants to. if u keep doing that you can pretty much put whatever u want in there and it wont hurt.

    also google perineal massage cause that help too

    Source(s): used to have the same problem
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    sometimes it just happens like that haveing sex multiple times close together will makes the muscles more sensitive and tighter its nothing to worry about the spotting could be from iritation if ur worried about go to a doctor

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Probably the alcohol. When a woman isnt interested in sex her vaginal muscles contract, making penetration difficult and sometimes painful. Alcohol also most likely effected his erection given that it thins your blood (just like aspirin). So he most like wasnt as "hard" as he normally would be. Drinking and sex dont mix, never have never will.

  • D
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Could be repetitive sex, orgasms, or the drinking.

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