Too nervous to talk to her?

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Im a junior in high school and I really like this girl. She's just perfect and when I'm not with her I can't stop thinking about her. All day at school I hope I'll see her in the halls or something just so I can say hi. The problem is I feel like she's out of my league. She hangs out with all the cool kids and goes to their parties and stuff and I'm definitely not part of that group.

She started saying hi to me in the halls randomly a couple weeks ago and we've been chatting a little, but I can't tell if she's just being friendly or likes me. My biggest problem is that she almost always starts the conversations because I'm too nervous to talk to her a lot of the time. I don't want to ruin just being friends by showing that I'm in to her if she's not into me. On top of that I guess I'm just scared of finding out she doesn't like me - if thats the case. She's really popular and talks to lots of guys so I'm not sure what to think.

So I guess my question would be how can I approach her just to talk more often and how can I find out if she likes me?? Also, I don't want her to feel like I'm some creepy kid who's not as cool as her or something that's obsessing over her.

Thanks!!

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I'll help you with this.

With girls like her, even though she's willing to make the first move, she would be sooooo stunned if you got up and talked to her. She probably knows that your a bit intimidated, and she be flattered if you got up the nerve to talk to her. It definitely sounds like she's interested, but wait  a bit before asking her out or anything. Because she is pretty (from your words) allot of guys have probably wanted to be with her, but for her prettiness. Get to know her for her self, not just her looks. If she has an after school activities, and you see her, compliment her on it. If she's a cheer leader, go to a game, and the next day go 'I saw you at the game yesterday, you're a really good cheerleader' and smile.

    After talking to her a bit, give a bit of distance so that you're not that 'creeper stalker kid' Than in a few days talk to her again, or when ever she talks to you. Become friends first.

      She Will start to She signs a likeness if she likes you back. Looking at you, than looking away, excuses to see you, smiling at you, playing around with you  allot, 'sneaking peeks' while she's having fun ( to see if you're watching her) those are all hits. Watch for them. Most guys aren't watchful, and don't see these. And it bugs girls. If you maintain eye contact, smile, than stare a little longer, than continue hat you where doing.

   These tips will definitely help.


~A

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