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Help on a Sagittarius man?

Here is where things get messy, I'll split it up in order..

Firstly, I broke up with my ex a few months ago, not long afterwards a sagittarius man jumped into my life. He expressed a deep sexual desire towards me, which I shrugged off at first, I thought he just wanted sex. Then one day he told me that he would care for me, and that he is looking for a 'cutie'. I slowly started to fall for the things he said, and we met a couple of times in real life, I was immediately attracted to him.

Things got a little more intense and we started to dirty talk and send pictures to each other, and we both seemed to enjoy it. All the while I kept reiterating that I wanted more than sex, and he said that he liked me and that it wasn't just that.

I heard a lot of bad things about him, and how much of a **** he is from people that know him. This didn't really bother me because I'm willing to accept people how they are, and people shouldn't be held against their mistakes in life.

He told me that he could properly see me and him together but he is a **** so he is like 'arggggh' about it.

Anyway, one night got quite serious in his car, and we ended up having sex, and it was deep and passionate and amazing. We spoke a few times after, then he started ignoring me. He wouldn't text back and blamed it on his new long work shifts (12 hours), this went on for like a week.

I then heard that he was seeing some other girl in fact, in the week we had sex, and he had took her on dates, which he never took me on.

I started to forget about him and a couple or few weeks later I met a Capricorn guy who actually hates the Sagittarius, they both hate each other really. Things seemed to be looking up, but the Capricorn told me he was falling for his friend.

Then last week, the Sagittarius started talking to me again, told me he had liked me all that time, and that he told me he was a **** and sent a </3 next to it. He also said he was wondering for days why he did it, and he still has no idea. All this time I kept saying I didn't know what to do and I was confused, and he was agreeing with me.

He then said to me, 'I can still see us together, we could be, and we should be.' Stupidly, I forgave him although he really screwed me over. Our conversation lead on, and it ended up with dirty talking and pictures AGAIN.

I have a really weak willpower, clearly, but he has barely talked to me since opening up about it. I have no idea whether he was just using me, or he meant what he said. I think my intensity towards him may have scared him off previously, but if that's the case, why is he making no effort now?

Should I trust him and wait for something more to happen, or just move on?

Here are my signs:

Sun Leo, Moon Cancer, Mercury Virgo, Venus Virgo, Mars Libra, Jupiter Sagittarius, Saturn Pisces, Uranus Capricorn, Neptune Capricorn, Pluto Scorpio, Lilith Gemini, Asc node Libra, Ascendant Cancer, II Cancer, III Leo, IV Virgo, V Libra, VI Scorpio, VII Capricorn, VIII Capricorn, IX Aquarius, Midheaven Pisces, XI Aries, XII Taurus

Update:

I also forgot to add that when he saw a picture of me and the Capricorn he was asking me a lot of questions, and if I got with him. He then said 'ewww' to the thought of it, and seemed to be really jealous and possessive, which completely confuses me because then he doesn't make an effort with me.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
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    This sounds like what I went through with a Sag. And I am a Leo, too.

    Basically, he has no plans of committing to you. He clearly didn't respect you after you two slept together, and you as a Leo need more stability and consistency than a Sagittarius can give.

    SAGITTARIUS MUST RUN FREE. That's why he didn't text you. And yes, the Sag I was with used that same work excuse. Really he is just exercising his freedom and disregard of you. Sagittarius men will drop in and out of your life unexpectedly. This means that he may text you a lot, then stop for two weeks, and return as though nothing happened. He sees nothing wrong with this. Hell to a Sagittarius man is having to text a girl often and check on her every day or even every other day. Do you think you can put up with this?

    If not, you need to move on.

    And move on fast. I don't see him being serious. More often than not, Sagittarius sticks around for fun times and sex, not a relationship, not holding hands, not buying you dinner or taking you out on dates. This is what you should strive for as a Leo woman. You'll be more and more unhappy the longer you wait on him. I'm assuming he's calling himself a d ick so maybe you should listen to him when he does this, he is being honest about himself. That's one of Sagittarius' better qualities, they cannot lie about what they are. Can't say they don't lie about other things, lol.

    So yes, he's probably really sexy. Sagittarius men tend to be, but the problem is, THEY KNOW IT AND TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF THEIR APPEAL TO WOMEN.

    Do as you will, but know you can find and do WAY better. Love yourself. Oh, one more thing. Sagittarians are the Kings and Queens of over-sized promises. This explains how he says he sees you two together...blah blah blah. Sorry girl but there's a 90% chance it's all BS. Sagittarians love to make promises, but only a quarter of the time, and maybe even less than that, see themselves through. The reason why is because they got distracted by what they think is a better option. Him saying "Ewwww" to the Capricorn is just him being a doosh, Sags can be possessive but eh, it means little considering their capricious nature. It's not like he's waiting on you, so I'd just drop him.

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    9 years ago

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