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How to Correct This Huge Mistake?
Okay, so I've been texting this guy for all of about five days. We're super into each other. And sex hasn't been mentioned at all--until tonight. And it's all my fault! He was out a concert and got a little ****-faced. So we're texting, and he's about to go to sleep, and he brings up "room service" and he'd like his "pillows fluffed". So, stupid me plays into this whole sexting thing, and it just went downhill from there, if you know what I mean--or uphill, if that's how you want to look at it? I'm extremely vulnerable right now because I haven't been with anyone for about five months, and I know that's no excuse. I don't want to come off as a tease, and I don't want to scare him away, because he's really awesome. BUT, I also don't him to think he's going to get some on the first date, that's just not my style. I have self-control, he just caught me at a weak moment. Is there anyway I can fix this, or did I just screw myself over? Help!
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
hmm, stay true to your word. It can be very hard in the heat of the moment.
I had a girl that used to 'sext' me all the time and when it came to being physically in the same room, she was as cold as ice. that is just plain frustrating. Had she explained to me how she felt i would have been fine with not being overly sexual with her. but all the prompts i got from her were highly suggestive.
I think you should, explain to him that you got a bit carried away and you're not usually like that and that you do like him, but you want to take things slower. if that is how you feel.
What i'm trying to say is that it's important for him to know how you feel so he can make up his mind about how he feels. He will take his lead from you.
If he gets upset by this then he just wants sex anyway so run away.
any decent guy, with the right info, and treated with respect and honesty from you will treat you the same.
Hope this helps.
EDIT: no no no. i just read the above answer. Please please don't say something that you don't mean! it's extremely cruel. i'm all for free speech and everything but playing with someone's feelings is not okay, for ANY gender.
Source(s): I'm a guy...been there. - 9 years ago
Well if a guy asked me to fluff his pillows, I wouldn't exactly feel honoured ... His suggestion was kind of filthy, so you thought he was just joking and played along. Problem solved.
- 9 years ago
just pretend it didnt happen. if he thinks ur a tease then thats his problem. girls are allowed to talk about sex then choose not to anytime they want. freedom of speech baby.
