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Girlfriend makes me miserable, what to do?

She puts her friends first, never have I had the chance where it was just me and her for once, we’ve been together for 2 months now.

I’ve spent over $200 on her, and I know girl’s cost money, but all I’ve gotten out of the relationship has been a peck on the lips.

She doesn’t go out of the way for me like I do for her, and her friends are rotten. She makes me unhappy, I’ve tried and tried talking to her about it, as you can guess, I am about ready.

I’m asking what seems to be a question that I already know the answer too deep inside, many girl’s would love to be my girlfriend (without sounding like an asshole.) she is just a genuine girl.

I need someone with a clear mind to tell me, should I leave? or should I try one last time.

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You need to feel valued. We all look for that and should cherish it when we get it. Like you said mate, plenty of girls would love to be with you. And they would make you happy.

    Your not a bad person for ending it. Just do it reasonably and respectfully if u do decide to.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    You already know the answer to this one. If you're still in high school, then this is the perfect opportunity to communicate what you're feeling. If you feel that you have to spend money in order to get more than a peck on the lips, then you're barking up the wrong tree. If you're that unhappy with her, then if after talking, it's not working out, then call it quits.

  • Margot
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    It doesn't matter if she is a genuine girl. You have not said one positive thing about your relationship. you don't like her friends. She make Is you unhappy. You are miserable.

    So why do you stay? I would rather be alone than to be in a relationship in which I am unhappy and miserable. By your own account, there are many girls who would want to be your girlfriend. So why aren't you with one of them...who makes you happy and content.

  • 9 years ago

    lf you are miserable, that is all the reason you need to break up.

    Having a partner is to have fun, support, and be happy. You

    are none of those things. You deserve those things, and should

    settle for nothing less.

    So ditch her, and find a new gf who is genuinely interested in you,

    and who wants to be with you and have fun with you. There are lots

    of girls out there, l am sure one is just waiting to make you happy.

    Source(s): my life
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  • 9 years ago

    Do not count Girlfriend with money

    When you call her FRIEND

    Love Guru

  • 9 years ago

    dude you may not find my answer very amusing...but i would say she doesn care a damn about you. may be she is just using you! wake up! i would suggest you date a girl from her friends list and watch how she burns :D cheers man..always be happy

  • 9 years ago

    try

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