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Sit back, relax...and tell me what you think about my reasoning why I'm perpetually single?

As I'm laying in my apartment, I realize that I'm a practice girl. I'm the girl that some find attractive enough to partake in sexual activities and maybe some conversation beforehand. I'm not the one they have a desire to love, hold onto, or even marry. Don't get me wrong, I've hung out with men that I'm sure care about me to a certain degree...but nothing too mushy. I'm the girl that if I suddenly stopped responding to their texts/calls, they would be mildly disappointed; but move on smoothly. I don't have the star power and I'm not beautiful. On the inside, I'm very dry, sarcastic, and a bit selfish. All qualities no man wants in a wife. There is a slight flaw in my theory, there are women with missing teeth in what appears to be successful relationships. But other than that, I think I'm pretty spot on. Think about it, I've pursued men of all different ages, background, races, religions, upbringings, and even zodiac signs; but still the same result: nothing. I'm starting to become more and more desentized, and no longer look for the "love" I've desired for 21 years now. I understand, now that I'm just a "fun girl."

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  • 9 years ago
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    You obviously have no confidence. That's your problem, right there. You're getting used because you're letting yourself get used.

    Value yourself highly. Make guys work more to get you. When they do get you, they'll want to hold onto you because you're valuable. The sorts of guys who won't put much effort in are the sort that don't want to keep you when they get you. The guys who are willing to put in more effort will only do so with girls that don't give them what they want right away.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    do what ever makes you happy. just a suggestion understand that having a baby is kewl and getting married i would suggest to be open for when that specail person comes along. i waited my whole to find a women that is like that chick i could travel the world with and everyday with her would be amazing. i found her and she wont talk to me its crushing me. what should i do.

  • 9 years ago

    I think it's kinda good that your like that (not the fact that you have been searching for love for 21 years) but when that person comes a long that see's you in a whole different way then the rest of the guys have you will know right away and it will be the best feeling in the world :)

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