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Flirting and Dancing With A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend?

Over the weekend i was at a multi-school conference and i met a girl there. She mentioned she had a boyfriend just casually when i first met her but then for the rest of the weekend we were talking a lot and even flirting. There was a dance too and she asked me for my number there and kept asking me to dance. Eventually we did - grinded and she seemed to like - and i had a lotta fun but now i feel bad...

I don't know why she was flirting and dancing with me if she had a boyfriend. She doesn't seem like the type of person who would cheat on anyone or do anything close. It says on her facebook " in a relationship" but doesn't say with who and i couldn't find any pictures on her facebook of her with any guys (even tho she had hundreds of pictures)...

Do you think she actually has a boyfriend or could this just be idk like a thing she's doing to try to make me jealous or something... do girls do things like that? Also if she does have a boyfriend I feel really bad and don't want to get in the middle of that or cause any problems, but i still sorta like her. What to do??!!

Thanks!!

-btw i'll see her again at future conferences so I cant really just forget about her. and also should i keep texting her or leave her alone?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Understanding girls is d most difficult thing in d world. Girls often treat boys as stairs which they can use to go higher and usually have 2 boyfriends and try to create competition between them just for her convinence. May be she wants a good dance partner and therefore trying to impress you. Try to talk to her about her boyfriend and ask about their relationship. If she is not clear about their relationship, express your feelings about her directly and indirectly. Also try to find is she really nice to you or just because you are perfect dance partner to her and person whom she can spend her idleness. Just dont mess up your relationship with a person who just wants to use you. Hope this will work!! Good luck.

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe she said that to get your attention but if you like her go for it, or and if she was flirting and do other stuff, she may not be happy and proud of her relationship and that may be also the reason she doesn't put it (Bf's name) on Facebook!

  • 9 years ago

    You shouldnt feel too bad about it because it's on her if she's the one in the relationship. But i don't recommend pursuing her if she has a boyfriend because that'll just get messy . You don't have to necessarily stop talking to her altogether but make sure you only send out friend vibes and nothing more. And maybe no grinding at the next conference.

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