almost 20 year old male virgin?

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Long story short, I never had any sort of relationship with a girl in high school, didn't kiss a girl until the beginning of my freshman year in college, and just got out of a semi-relationship that ended pretty badly. Basically, I talked to this girl at the end of my freshman year, we kept talking through the summer, went out on weekends together to begin this year. I hooked up with her a few times but things never escalated any higher, and I know I wasn't aggressive enough in certain situations, which I do regret because afterwards I knew I should have made a move. She basically felt as if we turned into friends after the first 10 weeks, but the way she went about telling me was through ignoring me and I had to ask her why she was ignoring me before she told me over a text message that things were done. 

That experience, as minor as it may seem to most people, was the first real relationship I've had with a girl other than just friends, and the fact that things went so shitty and I wasn't even dating her just makes me feel like I have no clue what I'm doing. I am an average looking guy I'd say but I'm extremely tall (6'5" always the tallest guy pretty much wherever I am) and slender at just under 200 lbs. I work out a good amount, but my body is just naturally slender so I still look pretty skinny. I feel like every girl I try to talk to are just intimidated by my height or just think I'm freakishly tall so stay away. I am very unsure of myself, but I try to act confident and do fine talking to girls in general, I just can't seem to find any girls that give me any signs that they may like to be more than just friends. I just feel like I blew it on the first semblance of a relationship I have no confidence for any relationships in the future.

Sorry for the rambling, but if anyone could give any good advice it would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

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Believe me, its not bad at all to be 20 and still a virgin. I mean personally I find marriage to be better cause you can get sex whenever you want. If you marry the girl of your dreams not only will you feel better that you waited for her but you would feel the same way if she waited for you. to be the only man she's ever slept with ;) that is an awesome feeling. Personally I love tall men!! My friends they love tall men as well! like really tall! :) Don't be looking for just any girl! But the one that will stick by you and be a person you would like to spend with for the rest of your life :) Even the most attractive people do not date all that much. Its the wise relationships that last the most. :)

You'll find her! Your only 20! you've got so much longer! :) so be wise and a wonderful man in your relationships and You'll be doing just fine :D

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Do not fear about it. Coming from a lady, a 20 12 months historic virgin is much more attractive than a 20 12 months historic man whore. If you want to get girl, and now not only for intercourse, simply speak to her. Get to grasp her and speak to her like you might you associates. Fake she's one of the vital guys in case you must. Most girls will not ask out guys so you're gonna have got to you have to be courageous and ask a lady out. It is k about being a virgin. There's NOTHING unsuitable with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Just because you've had one bad relationship doesn't mean you're doomed! There are so many more girls that you will meet and one will show you why it didn't work out with anyone else so don't worry about it! Just be confident and yourself, you can't go wrong with that. 
Btw I think you being a virgin is hot, rare to find nowadays. & your height! Would kill to find a nice tall guy!
But seriously, just be confident!

stupid · Answer

Dude, don't worry!

My advice, take some dance classes and interact with women. You will hit it off with one lady.

Take East Coast Swing because it's fun and if you are a guy, and if you can dance, then all those drunk schmucks on the sidelines are just looking at the ladies while you have them pressed next to you.

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