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I don't think my boyfriend likes me anymore?
I dont know where to start, well my current boyfriend used to date on of my bestfriends last year, he will always love her, i can tell she's all he thinks about, his friends agree he'll always love her. Last weekend she came back to our hometown, she moved further north but he always travels to her or she comes down once a month or so. Back to when she came down, he went to meet her for a coffee, seeing as she's a close friend she invited me to go with her, I refused as I thought about the awkwardness but also they deserve some time to catch up. Since he saw her he's not acting the same, I always have to go see him, I have to start the conversations. Today it got worse, I hugged him and he said "I have to go" straight away, I thought nothing to it until a few seconds after I said " I love you" (This wasnt the first time we always say it, but he says it first) He walked off. I don't know what to do, I don't want to speak to him about it either. I'm genuinely not a jealous person but this is eating me away.
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Another story you dont have to read but y'know.
When we first started dating he went to her house for the weekend to sleep, and he told me he was at his cousins but his friend told me different, I burst out into tears and walked off campus with my friend. He came to find me and he told me he won't do anything because she has a boyfriend and he's not putting her boyfriend through that, so if she wasn't with her boyfriend, he would? Idk i'm just scared of being hurt, I don't wanna get too close just in case he's using me to get over her.
Sorry its long.
"And by the way....what are you doing dating your best friend's ex?? You're breaking the girl code!" She hooked us up.
7 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years ago
Obviously, he's still hung up on her and I know it hurts, but I think you're the "rebound girl" here? Relationships are hard, but rebounds are the worst! I think you should give yourself some space from him and let him come to you and show you differently. Feel better hun and occupy your mind with other things in the meantime. Don't call him, make him work for you if he's sincere. Good luck
- 9 years ago
im sure he loves you should confront him about it...even if anything happens you shouldnt base you happiness on one person at the end of the day you have to be happy and content...and if your not getting that with this dude why are you with him if hes causing you pain? is it really worth that...you know how many guys would want to date you...get some confidence in your self...confront him
goodluck your beautiful by the way i hope i have girlfriend like you someday
- Anonymous9 years ago
Just break up...it won't work. Doesn't sound like he actually likes you..
And by the way....what are you doing dating your best friend's ex?? You're breaking the girl code!
- 9 years ago
i think you should break up with him. He appears to still have feeling for her and seems to treat you as a side note. His excuse for sleeping over - not a good thing. From what you wrote, you will be second as long as she is around. i would take a few steps back from this relationship.
- EnlightenerLv 49 years ago
I do think he still has feelings for her. He shouldn't be going out of his way to see her anyway since he has a girlfriend. I think it's not going to last long and he's being a jerk towards you.
