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Isla asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

Shes being so moody...what should I do?

My friend has recently (around 2 weeks ago) been rolling my eyes at my presence and treating me like utter crap. I know that we may be completely different, I'm extraverted while shes introverted - and i'm more open and friendly while shes more exclusive and secretive, but we're both quite philosophical and love getting into a depth of things together in discussions. I've noticed how she sometimes tries to be like me - and how I've made her alot more confident and open to people. She even admitted a few months ago that if it weren't for me, she wouldn't know around 80% of the people she knows now. She probably wouldn't say so now, she'd deny it all.Sometimes i can tell she is just lying to her own true self by really concealing it and pretending to be the more mature, clever version of me - but I've learnt to get over it; she has the right to do anything she wants. Nowadays, it's really un-nerving for me to hang around her since she doesn't even value my opinions, rolls her eyes at me and acts like i'm stupid. She even muttered to herself i was stupid today. I mean... geez ; i really don't want to start a fight over this for the sake of the others in my group but the issue isn't getting resolved. I have the potential and raw self confidence to stand up for my self, but I just can't find the words for it if she's going to glare at me and call me a dumb bimbo. She is incredibly good at lying, I've learnt over months.I'm not sure, maybe i am just frustrating, annoying and really really immature?

What hurts me the most is that, now she's gained the most benefits out of me eg. contacts, connections, self confidence, jokes, humour - she'll just run off and act like me with all the plus.

What should I do? Thanks guys in advance.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    She is jealous of you. Maybe the way you look and how easy it is for you to make friends with your kindness. If she tries to bring your mood down, it's so that she can feel better about herself.

    There is this girl who used to do everything with me, we were like sisters in a way. But now she treats me like crap, and always picks on me even when I haven't even said a word to her. But the only reason why I know she picks on me is so that she can make herself feel better, I would hear her tell her friend "Why does Ivette have to look better than us!?"

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe she genuinely just doesn't like you as much as you thought she did. I have this guy that I can maybe talk to twice a week, but if he comes at me like on the wrong day ill be aggressive and mean and upset towards him even though I don't mean to it just happens, it's just that I don't like how he is personally.

  • 8 years ago

    I do this to alot of my friends not because im mad or my period its just some days im extremeley annoyed. just dont bug let her be dont ask alit of questions

  • 8 years ago

    box her up

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