Am I the only woman who thinks the card scene in Love Actually is creepy and not romantic?

I'm talking about the storyline where Andrew Lincoln's character is obsessed with the Keira Knightley character and professes his love to her on cards. In real life, if a guy's so-called best friend offered to videotape his wedding and then spent several hours doing close ups of the wife's face, then showed up at their house on Xmas to secretly profess his love for her, that wouldn't be romantic. It would be creepy, and a betrayal of his friendship. Why is this supposed to be romantic? In real life, if a psychologically healthy man fancied his best friend's woman, he wouldn't videotape closeups of her face at said friend's wedding. that is the behavior of a psycho. Are there any other women who agree with me?