How do I end my friendship with these girls?

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My two friends (Sam: I've known since kindergarten and Ashley: since fifth grade) have changed a lot this year. They have become really perverted and boy crazy, especially since this new kid started school this year. They don't really include me in their conversations and I never know what they are talking about anymore. They also have taken up another friend, Tina, that is even more perverted and slutty than they are becoming. I don't want to really associate with them too much anymore, mainly because I don't want to become part of that crowd. For the past 2 weeks I haven't gone to lunch to avoid sitting with all of them. 
Anyway, Sam and Ashley asked me why I don't go to lunch anymore, and I said I don't like sitting with Tina. So Sam said that I hate Tina more than I like them (stupid comment). I didn't really respond to that. 
I have been pretty distant from them this week. I want to end the friendship once and for all. What can I say to them so it can be over? I don't care if I burn bridges but I also don't want them to hate me (I don't think that me saying choose between me and Tina would work well). 

Thanks for your help!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i think the best thing is to ignore them. take time to be with yourself as you figure out, your next move. on what kind of friends you are going to be engaged with. if they ask you why you somehow distant. be frank and tell them you having your own time. after all its not a crime. cos if you tell them you dont wanna hang around with them because of their friend they will think you are judgmental and say things like you are pretending to be holier than thou. i hope am of help. thanks for answering mine.

? · Answer

Okay I would say "hey guys I feel like you've changed since you've been hanging out with Tina and I don't like the new you's as much. I feel like we don't have a lot in common anymore and since you found Tina that you guys have stuff in common with, now I'm gonna find some new friends I have stuff in common with too!" or something along those lines :)

Thanks for answering mine!

Kirstie · Answer

Well, I guess that if you don't like your friends anymore because they have changed.. Then just tell them that. be completely honest with them an just say what you think is right. Whatever is on your mind. Just stop talking to them and find other ppl to hang out with. then if they ask, just say " you guys have changed."

Billy · Answer

no u cant do it that way or they will have a grudge against u well i think anyways. just distance yourself away from them as far as possible and minimum Ur conversations with them. trust me it will take a couple of months probably but it worked for me. you'll eventually just end up saying hi occasionally. hope this helped. long process

Anonymous · Answer

I suggest you ignore them as much as you can. Hang out with other people and they will see you with other friends and realize that you don't need them anymore.

Random · Answer

Just tell them how you really feel. It may hurt, but if you don't want to be friends with them anymore, be honest. Don't be mean, but, be honest.

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