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Me and my guy friend had sex. What now?
Me and my guy friend have been friends for about a while now, and both of us go to the same college. I've also developed a crush on him but he said he just wanted to be friends, so I kind of accepted it. Well, the semester's almost over and for him, he's been having it rough. Not only has he not been sleeping, but his dog died as well. He didn't want to talk for about a week, so I left him alone. Then yesterday, out of the blue, he texted me saying if he could come over. We were talking, and apologizing, then asked if I wanted to have sex with him. So we ended up having sex. I was wondering if he wants to be more than friends? Also, I actually enjoyed it alot, and want to do it again, but I'm afraid to say anything. Should I just keep quiet or give him hints I want to do it again?
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- ?Lv 68 years agoFavorite Answer
If you give him hints like that you will be offering yourself as his sex buddy. If that's what you want, go ahead. If you want to find out if he really likes you, just keep quiet and let him pursue you. And don't have sex with him again until you feel he has some emotional stake in the matter.
- 8 years ago
I actually kinda understand your problem because my cousin had the same thing happen to her. I would wait (even if it's hard) and see if he comes to approach you and say that he actually does like you. If he isn't interested in anyone else, it could actually work out for both of you. But I would say that always having pity sex with him wouldn't be such a good idea, since it could end up breaking your friendship, or make it awkward even if YOU like it, and of course having unsafe sex is, well, not great. If he doesn't come and approach you, then you can go talk to him in a friendly manner of course, and not just approaching with sex... ask him gently if he has any feelings for you and tell him about your feelings. It will open everything up and you'll be able to have a more understanding relationship, and it could actually end up leading to something more. I hope it all works out for you in the end!
~Good luck~
- teresathegreatLv 78 years ago
This was probably a one-time thing. Guys call it "pity sex" - you felt sympathy for unhappiness, so you gave him something to cheer him up. Once he is no longer feeling so vulnerable, he probably won't want to get in the emotional gray area of pursuing a relationship.
Since you have feelings for him, you won't be able to successfully be just "sex buddies" with him. Accept that it happened, and probably won't happen again.
Don't give "hints" - guys are notoriously blind to hints, and usually interpret them wrong even if they do notice them. If you're confused, just talk openly with him about what happened and why it happened and what should happen next. It will be much better than trying to guess or hint or wonder.
- 8 years ago
I would tell him you liked it and would like to do it again if he wants to. Be safe.
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