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only...Ladies, would you ever consider dating a bigger guy?
and if yes, what qualities would you be looking for, knowing all the desired physical qualities are not present? also, are taller guys somewhat intimidating?
I'm 6'3 and 248, I do weigh-lift, and run 3 miles daily, I'm still hefty, and have a small gut that is visible. pretty much like a linebacker body, with a small gut.
I asked if taller, bulkier guys are intimidating because I get a lot of eyes at the gym, or public areas, I try to smile back but ladies often turn away immediately. it's slowly taking a toll on my self esteem, but trying to fight it off. Just to make it clear Im far away from being a jerk, or scumbag.
10 Answers
- 8 years ago
Well it's always a total turn on when they're either A. Easy to talk to B. Hilarious C. Sarcastic D. Extremely caring and nice. In my honest opinion, weight hardly matters in a relationship really, it's more personality. Oh and remember confidence too. Hold yourself high and be proud of who you are because that's also very attractive, just don't be cocky. I might be alone on this part though, but being nerdy also helps, since I'm a major nerd myself. I'm friends with some pretty tall dudes and they're hardly intimidating. I guess it's only marginally intimidating, but they're probably turning away quickly because you caught them looking at you.
Hope I could help!
- ?Lv 48 years ago
First off I'll be truthful people will always be scared of bigger people and this is because in a fight of course people are going to think they will win.so if they stare at you and look away they probably are intimidating.
Now there is nothing wrong with this at all and I'm not saying you should change
It.some girls do like it,and if your not an asshole then of course girls will come to you that's what they like.and most girls like guys who can protect them.now put your head up and try to speak with a girl and make a move.don't be self insecure..confidence is sexy;)and by the way a lot of girls like fit guys..you are in luck;)
- 8 years ago
A mature, quality woman doesn't care about looks. If you treat a woman right, and act like a gentleman, women should have no issue dating you. Being bigger as a guy is much better than being a small guy. More warmth to cuddle with! Don't worry!
- 8 years ago
I'm 5'1 and l love big men....shorter women usually love the big/tall men...but size isnt important at all to me just as long as the man is healthy, fit, takes care of himself, knows how to treat me, love to talk, have fun, love life, & most definitely knows how to cuddle with his woman etc...etc... You seem really to be a sweet person...just remain confident & never ever be cocky...you'll bump into a woman who will appreciate all of your good qualities. Best of luck to you....oh yeah dont overthink the smile...smiling is always misinterpreted for weakness but people like myself always know different. A smiling man is an intriguing man to me...
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- 8 years ago
I'm 6'4" 300 plus and I got 99 problems but a girl ain't one nuff said man put some swagger in that step and just be you if they don't like you who gives a crap move on to the next one eventualy you'll find someone.
- 8 years ago
I like bigger guys actually. A good sense of humor, an easy smile and a kind nature will always perk my interest. I also look for shared interests in music, hobbies ect.
- morgan danielle.Lv 68 years ago
If he was slightly overweight, sure. If he's super overweight, hell no. I'm not attracted to overweight guys, but if he was cute and confident...then, I'd definitely consider it. Just try to work out and eat healthy and drop that weight that's making you insecure! Then, get out there and find a worthwhile lady.
- 8 years ago
Make sure it's sweet smile and maybe your so good looking girls get totally freaked out that you totally hot guy would smile at them not so cool uncool girl that's the way most girls think dont let it get you down though!!
Best of luck!!!(:
- 8 years ago
No girls usually go for bigger guys cause it's innate behavior to find the protecter
- 8 years ago
All girls have different tastes and i know someone will like you for who you are. So don't feel insecure, just be friendly